Coaching practices for I Take the Elevator the Car the Shortcut Every Single Time Without Thinking and I've Noticed the Easy Path is the Only One I Can Stand Anymore I Want to Start Picking the Harder Version of Small Everyday Things So Convenience Stops Quietly Running My Life
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- I take the elevator, the car, the shortcut every single time without thinking, and I’ve noticed the easy path is the only one I can stand anymore
- I keep falling into the easy bad option just because it’s what’s already set up and waiting
- I know exactly what I should do, but every time there’s some little hassle in the way
- It’s not that I don’t want to do the thing
- The thing I’m trying to cut is just too easy
Practices that may help
- Periodically forgo a comfort or convenience
Regularly choose the harder version of a routine activity — the stairs, the inconvenience, the slower path.
Voluntary Discomfort: The Stoic Practice of Chosen Hardship - Change the default to change the outcome
Set up systems so the right behavior happens automatically unless you actively opt out.
Nudge Theory, Made Practical - Remove one small obstacle at a time
Eliminate tiny points of friction so the good behavior becomes the path of least resistance.
Kaizen: Change by Tiny Steps - Reduce friction on desired behaviors
Make the healthy choice two fewer steps than the unhealthy one.
Nudge Theory, Made Practical - Add friction to unwanted behaviors
Inserting even a small obstacle between you and an unwanted behavior meaningfully reduces how often it happens.
Environment Design for Behavior Change - For each small choice, ask: "Is this on the upward or downward curve?"
The slight edge turns small choices into a binary classification: slightly better or slightly worse trajectory.
The Slight Edge: Jeff Olson’s Philosophy of Consistent Small Actions - Make small, consistent choices
Choose the tiny better option repeatedly — the daily difference is invisible, the cumulative one is not.
The Compound Effect, Made Practical - Exploit micro-transitions within your day as mini fresh-start moments
Use daily transition points — arriving home, finishing a meeting, taking a break — to deliberately shift behavior rather than defaulting to the old pattern.
The Habit Discontinuity Effect - Design defaults so the cheap reward is not one tap away
Make the high-stimulation input harder to reach than the activity you want.
Dopamine Detox, Honestly Explained - Scale up only after the habit is automatic
Grow the habit gradually, and only once the micro version runs without effort.
Micro Habits: Start Absurdly Small
Related concerns
- Making Healthy Choice Easier
Make the healthy choice two fewer steps than the unhealthy one.
Reduce friction on desired behaviors
- Path Of Least Resistance
Make the healthy behavior the path of least resistance by removing every avoidable obstacle between you and starting.
Reduce friction for good behaviors to near zero
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Choose the tiny better option repeatedly — the daily difference is invisible, the cumulative one is not.
Make small, consistent choices
- When The Slight Edge Ask Is This On The Curve
The slight edge turns small choices into a binary classification: slightly better or slightly worse trajectory.
For each small choice, ask: "Is this on the upward or downward curve?"
- Add Friction Bad Habits
Inserting even a small obstacle between you and an unwanted behavior meaningfully reduces how often it happens.
Add friction to unwanted behaviors
- Add Friction To Bad Habits
Create an anticipatory craving for the reward of a new behavior before the reward arrives.
Build a craving deliberately to cement a new habit
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