Coaching practices for Why Can't I Stick to the Routines I Try to Make for Myself and Does My Adhd Have Anything to Do with it
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- A week of being sick (or away on a trip) knocked all my routines off the rails, and now I’m back but somehow can’t pick them up again
- I keep doing this thing I swear I’ll stop, and I genuinely can’t say what sets it off or what I’m even getting out of it
- I keep telling myself I lack discipline, but the behavior I want to stop doesn’t feel like a choice
- I’m convinced I’ve been mostly sticking to it, but when I’m honest I’m really remembering my intentions, not what I actually did
- I keep trying to punish myself into a good new habit and all it does is make me dread the thing and avoid it more
Practices that may help
- Conduct a habit audit after any major disruption
After illness, travel, or any routine disruption, deliberately audit which habits are still active and reinstall those that lapsed.
The Habit Discontinuity Effect - Map the cue-routine-reward loop
Break a habit into its three parts before you try to change anything.
The Power of Habit, Made Practical - Identify the stimulus driving the behavior you want to change
Map the exact cues — environmental, sensory, or social — that reliably precede the target behavior.
Stimulus Control, Made Practical - Measure to close the feedback loop
Record the behavior so you see what you are actually doing, not what you assume.
Habit Tracking - Choose between carrots and sticks based on your goal type
Sticks (loss-framed penalties) work better for stopping behaviors; carrots (rewards) work better for starting new ones.
Commitment Contracts, Made Practical - Account for system delays when evaluating progress
Delays between action and result are built into every system — premature abandonment is the most common failure.
Systems Thinking for Personal Productivity - Practice routine disruption so it doesn’t derail performance
Train yourself to reset and re-enter the routine after interruptions so disruption never catches you unprepared.
Pre-Performance Routines, Made Practical - Review the data to adjust the system
Use the tracker as diagnostic input, not just a scoreboard.
Habit Tracking - Cultivate genuine belief that change is possible
Habits stick permanently only when the person believes they can change — especially under stress.
The Habit Loop, Made Practical - Practise short sessions frequently rather than long sessions rarely
Multiple shorter sessions build the habit neurologically more reliably than occasional long ones.
Shamatha: The Buddhist Practice of Calm Abiding
Related concerns
- Accountability For Habits
Treat habit formation as a series of small experiments rather than a commitment you either keep or blow.
Apply PDSA to a behavior you want to build or break
- Diagnose Habit Failures
Treat habit formation as a series of small experiments rather than a commitment you either keep or blow.
- Discipline Vs Habit
Discipline means the system runs on days when motivation is zero — design for the worst version of yourself.
Build systems that run without motivation
- How To Break Out Of Routines
After illness, travel, or any routine disruption, deliberately audit which habits are still active and reinstall those that lapsed.
Conduct a habit audit after any major disruption
- Rehearse A Habit
Practice the full sequence several times in a row to install it faster.
Rehearse the anchor-behavior-celebration loop
- Returning To Habits
After illness, travel, or any routine disruption, deliberately audit which habits are still active and reinstall those that lapsed.
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