Coaching practices for Why Cant I Sleep

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  • By bedtime I’m already dreading another bad night, and the harder I try to force myself to sleep
  • I keep trying the obvious fixes
  • When I can’t fall asleep I just stay there, lying in the dark willing it to happen for an hour or more
  • The second I’m not asleep by a certain hour my mind starts screaming that tomorrow is ruined, that I have to get my eight hours or I’ll fall apart
  • I’ve thrown everything at my sleep

Practices that may help

  1. Break the anxiety-about-sleep loop
    Interrupt the cycle where worrying about not sleeping becomes the main reason you can not sleep.
    Stimulus Control for Sleep
  2. Learn the two-process model of sleep
    Understanding how sleep pressure and the circadian clock interact removes the mystery from why sleep is unpredictable.
    CBT for Insomnia (CBT-I), Made Practical
  3. Get out of bed when you can not sleep
    Leave the bed after roughly 20 minutes of wakefulness to avoid reinforcing the awake-in-bed association.
    Stimulus Control for Sleep
  4. Challenge the beliefs that make insomnia self-perpetuating
    Identify and revise the catastrophic beliefs about sleep that amplify arousal at bedtime.
    Sleep Restriction Therapy
  5. Use the two-process model to diagnose your specific sleep problem
    Identify whether your sleep issue is a Process S problem, a Process C problem, or both — because the fixes are different.
    The Two-Process Model of Sleep
  6. Apply dereflection to insomnia and sleep anxiety
    When you cannot sleep, stop trying to sleep and redirect attention to something you are genuinely curious about instead.
    Logotherapy: Dereflection
  7. Use the bed only for sleep (and sex)
    Reserve the bed strictly so the brain learns to associate it with sleepiness, not wakefulness.
    Stimulus Control for Sleep
  8. Challenge catastrophic thoughts about sleep
    Identify and test the beliefs that turn a bad night into a disaster story.
    CBT for Insomnia (CBT-I), Made Practical
  9. Apply stimulus control to the sleep environment
    Use the bed only for sleep and sex — no other stimulation — so your body learns that bed means sleep.
    Stimulus Control, Made Practical
  10. Use relaxation training before bed
    Practice a structured relaxation technique to lower physiological arousal before sleep.
    CBT for Insomnia (CBT-I), Made Practical

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