Coaching practices for Why Do I Feel Anxious When Life is Going Well

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• I keep telling myself "I’m great at this, I’ve got this" right before the thing I’m scared of, and it somehow makes me feel worse
• I keep asking the people around me "are you sure it’s fine?" over and over
• The instant I feel my heart skip or my chest tighten, I’m sure something is really wrong with me, and the fear of the sensation spins it into something bigger
• When I’m anxious about something, people keep telling me "it’ll be fine, don’t worry" and it does absolutely nothing
• When something’s unsettled, my mind jumps straight to how it goes wrong

Practices that may help

1. Use affirmation of values, not affirmation of ability
   Affirm that you are a good person with important values — not that you are good at the specific thing you are anxious about.
   Self-Affirmation Theory, Made Practical
2. Fade reassurance-seeking
   Gradually reduce how often you seek reassurance from others that the feared thing won't happen.
   Safety Behavior Fading, Made Practical
3. Interoceptive awareness
   Practice noticing and naming body sensations neutrally, so they stop reading as alarms.
   The Anxiety Toolkit, Made Practical
4. Manage prevention-focus anxiety through action, not reassurance
   Prevention-focused anxiety is reduced most effectively by taking the vigilant action that addresses the threat, not by telling yourself nothing is wrong.
   Regulatory Focus Theory: Promotion vs Prevention Thinking
5. Shift from negative to positive orientation toward uncertainty
   Reframe some uncertainty as openness — outcomes not yet known can be good as easily as bad.
   Accepting Uncertainty: The Core Skill in CBT for GAD
6. Balanced, compassionate self-talk
   Talk to yourself as you would to a friend — accurate and kind, not harsh or falsely cheery.
   The Anxiety Toolkit, Made Practical
7. Behavioral experiments
   Test an anxious prediction in real life and compare what you feared with what happened.
   The Anxiety Toolkit, Made Practical
8. Strengthen the observing self
   Notice that there is a "you" watching your thoughts — that witness is stable even when thoughts are not.
   Defusion from Anxious Thoughts
9. Directly challenge the belief that uncertainty equals danger
   Examine the evidence for and against "not knowing = bad outcome" — because the logic is usually flawed.
   Accepting Uncertainty: The Core Skill in CBT for GAD
10. Practising ataraxia: removing sources of anxiety
    Identify and address the sources of background anxiety rather than adding pleasures on top of them.
    Epicurean Philosophy: Practical Happiness

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