Spot gravity problems

Distinguish problems you can act on from "gravity problems" you can only accept and route around.

Why it works

A gravity problem is one that isn’t actionable — like gravity, it’s a condition, not a problem to solve. Pouring effort into unsolvable conditions ("the industry shouldn’t pay this little") is the most common way people stay stuck. Reclassifying it as a fixed reality frees the energy to design within constraints you can actually move.

How to do it

1. Name the thing draining you, then ask honestly: is this actionable by me at all?
2. If it isn’t, stop trying to solve it and accept it as a condition of the design.
3. Redirect the freed effort to the nearest constraint you can actually change.

Evidence

The accept-what-you-cannot-control / act-on-what-you-can distinction echoes both Stoic practice and the acceptance side of acceptance-and-commitment work, which has clinical support. Here it is offered as a design heuristic. (mechanistic)

The broader acceptance principle is well-evidenced; "gravity problem" is a memorable label for it, not a distinct studied construct.

Common mistake

Mislabeling a hard-but-solvable problem as a gravity problem to excuse inaction — acceptance is for the genuinely unactionable, not the merely uncomfortable.