Use the time to remove blockers
Ask what’s in their way and then actually clear it — this is your highest-leverage move.
Why it works
A manager often controls resources, access, and decisions the report can’t reach. Systematically hunting for and removing blockers converts your positional power into the team’s throughput, and reliably acting on what you hear is what makes the report keep surfacing problems early rather than hiding them.
How to do it
- Ask directly: "What’s slowing you down that I could help with?"
- Take an action item when a blocker is yours to clear, and close the loop next time.
- Track recurring blockers — they often point to a systemic fix, not a one-off.
Evidence
Supportive, obstacle-removing leadership is associated with engagement and performance; the broader job-demands-resources literature links removing hindrance demands to better outcomes and lower burnout. (observational)
Correlational; unblocking helps only when you reliably follow through — unkept commitments erode trust faster than never offering.
Sources
- Bakker & Demerouti, job demands-resources model (hindrance demands and burnout)
Common mistake
Hearing the blocker, nodding, and never acting on it — after a couple of dropped commitments, the report stops telling you what’s wrong.
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More practices for Effective One-on-Ones, Made Practical
- Make it recurring and genuinely protected
A standing slot you almost never cancel beats a longer meeting held only when there’s a "reason."
- Let the report own the agenda
It’s their meeting — they bring what matters to them, and you adapt to it.
- Listen far more than you talk
Aim to talk a fraction of the time; your silence is what makes space for the real issues.
- Spend real time on growth, not just tasks
Regularly leave the weeds and talk about career, skills, and where they’re headed.
- Make feedback flow in both directions
Give timely, specific feedback — and ask for it on your own management.