Using scarcity or seasonality to heighten appreciation
Restrict access to something abundant in order to restore its perceived value.
Why it works
Abundance normalises: when something is always available, it stops being appreciated. The Japanese custom of hanami (cherry blossom viewing) has its power precisely because the blossoms last only a week or two. Creating artificial scarcity — seasonal foods eaten only in season, a favourite activity limited to weekends — restores the contrast between presence and absence that drives genuine appreciation. This is the hedonic adaptation mechanism run in reverse.
How to do it
- Identify one thing you have made perpetually available and now barely notice.
- Restrict access: eat it only on weekends, visit it only in one season, use it only in one context.
- When you return to it, approach it as you would a rare occasion.
- Track whether the restriction restored any of the appreciation that abundance had eroded.
Evidence
Experimental research on savoring through restriction shows that limiting access to pleasures increases enjoyment when access is restored, consistent with the hedonic adaptation reversal mechanism. (observational)
Research tests specific pleasures in controlled conditions; real-life application across domains has not been systematically studied. Effect depends on the restriction being genuinely respected.
Sources
- Quoidbach & Dunn (2013), give it up: a strategy for improving wellbeing, Social Psychological and Personality Science
Common mistake
Creating the restriction but mentally compensating — thinking about the restricted thing during the absence in a way that provides anticipatory pleasure without the discipline. The practice requires actual absence, not rationed fantasy.
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More practices for Mono no Aware: The Pathos of Things
- Full presence with something passing
Deliberately be present for the last or near-last moment of something — a season, a stage, a relationship — without numbing.
- Seasonal attunement
Mark the changing of seasons not just as calendar events but as emotional and aesthetic transitions worth noticing.
- The last-time awareness practice
Periodically notice when you might be doing something for the last time — and let that awareness deepen your engagement.
- Holding joy and sadness simultaneously
When you notice a joyful experience that also carries loss, resist the urge to choose one emotion over the other.
- Treating grief as a form of gratitude
When something ends and you feel grief, recognise that the grief is proportional to the love — and let it be both.
- Cultivating a present-moment aesthetic
Train yourself to notice and appreciate the unrepeatable qualities of the present moment — light, weather, the texture of today.
Related concepts
- Wabi-Sabi: Finding Beauty in Imperfection
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- Zen Practice (Zazen and Beyond)
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- Stoicism, as a Set of Practices
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