Invent options for mutual gain before selecting
Generate multiple creative options without commitment before evaluating any — the solution space is usually larger than the initial positions suggest.
Why it works
Positional bargaining treats options as competitive and limited. Principled negotiation creates a separate invention phase — a genuinely brainstorm-only session where neither party is held to anything generated. This removes evaluative pressure from the creative phase, enabling more options to surface. More options means more chances of finding one that genuinely works for both sides.
How to do it
- Agree explicitly: "Let’s spend 20 minutes generating ideas without commitment — nothing we say here is an offer."
- Generate at least 5-10 options before evaluating any.
- Include options that favor the counterpart — this signals good faith and often prompts reciprocal creativity.
- Evaluate only after the list is complete, using agreed criteria rather than arbitrary preference.
Evidence
Separating generation from evaluation is a well-supported principle in creativity and decision research. Its application in negotiation context is supported by research on integrative bargaining, where joint option generation produces better mutual outcomes. Pruitt & Lewis (1975) showed that bilateral negotiators who generated solutions jointly reached measurably more integrative agreements than those who bargained over fixed positions. (observational)
Effective joint brainstorming requires sufficient trust that premature concessions won’t be held against the generating party — structuring the session explicitly helps.
Sources
- Bazerman & Neale (1992), Negotiating Rationally
- Pruitt, D. G., & Lewis, S. A. (1975). Development of integrative solutions in bilateral negotiation. Journal of Personality and Social Psychology, 31(4), 621-633.
Common mistake
Evaluating options as they are generated, which kills the creative phase — the pressure of evaluation makes people censor ideas before they can be explored.
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More practices for Principled Negotiation, Made Practical
- Separate the people from the problem
Address relationship concerns and substantive issues in different registers — treating people well and the problem hard.
- Focus on interests, not positions
Ask why a position is taken — the underlying interest is almost always more negotiable than the stated demand.
- Insist on objective criteria to evaluate options
Agree on an independent standard — market rate, precedent, expert opinion — before applying it to the specific deal.
- Frame proposals as "yesable propositions"
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- Acknowledge emotions explicitly in negotiation
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