Havening with lateral eye movements
Add side-to-side eye movements to the touch sequence to deepen attentional interruption.
Why it works
Lateral eye movements have their own proposed mechanism — borrowed from EMDR research — of activating orienting responses and increasing interhemispheric communication, which may reduce the vividness and emotional charge of imagery. Combined with havening touch, the eye movements occupy a different attentional channel simultaneously, making it harder for the brain to maintain a vivid stress loop. Both mechanisms are debated; the combined distraction effect on rumination is more straightforwardly supported.
How to do it
- Begin arm or face havening strokes as described in those practices.
- While stroking, shift your gaze smoothly from left to right and back — about one cycle per second.
- Continue for 1–2 minutes without fixating on any one point.
- Keep the eye movements slow and easy; jerky or forced movements reduce the calming effect.
- Close your eyes briefly at the end and notice the felt sense before reopening.
Evidence
EMDR (eye movement desensitization and reprocessing) does have a meaningful evidence base for trauma, though the specific role of eye movements versus other EMDR components is debated. Lateral eye movements alone show mixed evidence for reducing negative imagery in laboratory studies. A meta-analysis of randomized controlled trials confirms EMDR produces significant reductions in PTSD symptoms, anchoring the eye-movement lineage this practice borrows from in trial-level evidence. (mechanistic)
Evidence for eye movements reducing imagery vividness is a laboratory finding; whether the same effect accounts for clinical benefit in EMDR or Havening protocols is not established. The Havening-specific combination has no independent RCT.
Sources
- Andrade, Kavanagh & Baddeley (1997), eye movements and the vividness of imagery, Cognition & Emotion
- Andrade, J., Kavanagh, D., & Baddeley, A. (1997). Eye-movements and visual imagery: a working memory approach to the treatment of post-traumatic stress disorder. British Journal of Clinical Psychology, 36(2), 209-223.
- Chen, Y.-R., Hung, K.-W., Tsai, J.-C., Chu, H., Chung, M.-H., Chen, S.-R., Liao, Y.-M., Ou, K.-L., Chang, Y.-C., & Chou, K.-R. (2014). Efficacy of Eye-Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing for Patients with Posttraumatic-Stress Disorder: A Meta-Analysis of Randomized Controlled Trials. PLoS ONE, 9(8), e103676.
Common mistake
Turning the eye movements into a concentration exercise that itself becomes stressful — the gaze should be effortless and wandering, not drilled.
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More practices for Self-Havening: Calming the Nervous System Through Touch
- Arm havening stroke
Slowly stroke both forearms from shoulder to elbow while keeping attention off the distress.
- Face havening
Gently stroke your cheekbones and forehead to activate the facial calm response.
- Havening to clear pre-performance anxiety
Run a short havening sequence before a high-stakes event to lower physiological anxiety.
- The Havening Place (safe-place induction)
Combine havening strokes with a vividly imagined calm location to deepen resource anchoring.
- Counting distraction during havening
Count aloud or silently while stroking to occupy the verbal mind and prevent rumination.
- Havening to soften acute grief activation
Use gentle touch and brief distraction to lower the physiological intensity of grief surges.
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