Generate Options — explore the full range of possibilities before committing
Invite the person to generate as many options as possible before evaluating any of them.
Why it works
Option generation and option evaluation are cognitively distinct processes that interfere with each other when combined. Evaluating options as they are generated narrows the field prematurely — people stop generating once an apparently good option appears. Separating generation from evaluation (and generating from the coachee, not the coach) expands the solution space and keeps ownership with the person who must implement it.
How to do it
- Ask: "What are all the options you could consider? Let’s list them before evaluating any."
- Offer your own ideas as options, not recommendations: "One thing some people have tried is X — would that be worth adding to the list?"
- Push beyond the first two or three options: "What else? What if there were no constraints? What would someone you admire try?"
- After the list is built, ask the person to evaluate: "Which of these options feels most promising and why?"
Evidence
Deferred evaluation improves option diversity and quality. Motivational interviewing research shows that self-generated options are more likely to be acted upon than coach-supplied ones — the self-persuasion effect underlies this approach. (mechanistic)
The GROW options phase draws on deferred evaluation and self-persuasion principles from adjacent research; direct studies of the GROW model specifically are limited.
Sources
- Amrhein et al. (2003), the role of client language in motivational interviewing, Journal of Consulting and Clinical Psychology
Common mistake
Offering the best option immediately rather than facilitating the generation process — which efficiently provides a solution the person doesn’t own and is unlikely to implement.
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More practices for The GROW Model: Coaching Conversations That Actually Move People
- Set the Goal — establish what the conversation is for
Begin every coaching conversation by clarifying what the person wants to achieve in this session.
- Explore Reality — establish an honest assessment of the current situation
Help the person see their current situation clearly and specifically, without judgment or premature solutions.
- Secure Will — convert the best option into a specific commitment
Close the conversation with a specific, self-declared commitment to a concrete next action.
- Maintain a high question-to-statement ratio throughout GROW
Ask questions far more often than you offer statements — the coachee’s thinking is the product.
- Raise awareness and build responsibility simultaneously
Help the person see their situation more clearly while also connecting them to their ownership of it.
- Use GROW in brief leadership conversations, not just formal coaching sessions
Apply GROW structure to 5-minute hallway conversations and 1-on-1 check-ins — not only to hour-long coaching sessions.
Related concepts
- Motivational Interviewing, Made Practical
Evoking change talk, the spirit behind it, and where the evidence is real
- Feedforward: Future-Focused Feedback That Actually Changes Behavior
Replacing critique with future-focused suggestions — and the mechanisms behind it
- The Coaching Habit: Seven Questions to Be More Coach-Like
Seven questions that make you more useful than advice — and why they work
- Self-Efficacy: Building the Belief You Can
The four sources of efficacy beliefs, and how to grow each one