Coach the person, not just the problem
The most important thing a manager can work on is the person’s capacity to handle future problems, not just today’s.
Why it works
Solving the immediate problem is transactional; developing the person’s capacity to solve problems is transformational. The mechanism behind coaching the person is that you are addressing the source rather than the symptom. If someone’s problem recurs because of a pattern in how they approach decisions or relationships, solving the surface problem repeatedly produces no lasting change. Identifying the pattern and making it visible to the person turns a problem-solving session into a development session.
How to do it
- After understanding the immediate problem, ask: "What is the real challenge here for you?" — the answer often reveals a pattern bigger than this instance.
- Notice if the same problem keeps recurring: the recurrence is the real problem.
- Name patterns you observe over time, not just in the current moment.
- Make the distinction explicit: "I can help you with this specific issue, but I’m more interested in what’s making these issues keep coming up."
Evidence
Double-loop learning research (Argyris) distinguishes solving the immediate problem (single-loop) from examining the underlying assumptions and patterns (double-loop). Coaching the person targets double-loop learning, which produces more durable change. (mechanistic)
Argyris’s framework is widely cited but primarily conceptual; empirical tests of double-loop learning in management settings are limited. The distinction is useful practically even if the causal claims are not fully established.
Sources
- Argyris (1977), Double loop learning in organizations, Harvard Business Review
Common mistake
Getting absorbed in helping with the immediate problem and never surfacing the pattern — this is the single most common coaching failure mode and leaves the person no better equipped for the next occurrence.
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More practices for The Leader as Coach: A New Management Paradigm
- Stay curious one beat longer before advising
Resist the urge to give the answer for one more question — ask what they think first.
- Listen to understand, not to load your response
Most managers listen while mentally composing their reply — real coaching listening is for understanding, not rebuttal-preparation.
- Break the advice-dependency loop
When people come to you for every decision, it signals advice-giving is making them less capable, not more.
- Create thinking space rather than filling every meeting with content
The most valuable thing a coaching manager provides is protected time and space for reflection — which most teams never get.
- Acknowledge what you heard before advancing to advice
A solution offered before the speaker feels heard is usually rejected, even when it is correct.
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- Psychological Safety, Made Practical
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