Include a happiness question — not as an outcome goal but as a signal
Add "Did I do my best to be happy today?" to the list — not as a target, but as a daily quality-of-life sensor.
Why it works
Goldsmith’s question list includes wellbeing questions precisely because they are often the most neglected in achievement-focused people. "Did I do my best to be happy today?" is active-question framing applied to wellbeing: it treats happiness as partly within voluntary control (the effort to pursue it) rather than as a passive outcome of circumstances. Research on savoring, engagement, and hedonic adaptation shows that brief daily attention to positive experiences increases positive affect independent of objective circumstances.
How to do it
- Add "Did I do my best to find something meaningful or enjoyable today?" to your question list.
- Score it daily as you would any other question.
- When it scores low, ask: "What would have made it score higher? Did I build any recovery or pleasure into the day?"
- Use the score as a leading indicator of burnout risk — several consecutive low happiness scores while productivity scores are high is a warning sign.
Evidence
Savoring and positive engagement practices increase wellbeing in experimental and observational research; daily attention to positive experiences counteracts hedonic adaptation. (observational)
The "did my best to be happy" question is Goldsmith’s framing; the underlying savoring research supports daily positive-engagement attention but is not a direct validation of this specific question format.
Sources
- Bryant & Veroff (2007), savoring: a new model of positive experience
Common mistake
Treating a low happiness score as a problem requiring a solution rather than as information — on high-demand days, a moderate score is appropriate and expected; the concern is only when low scores become the trend.
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More practices for The Morning Questions
- Reframe passive questions as active questions
Ask "did I do my best to...?" rather than "how was my...?" — the word "try" changes what the question measures.
- Design a personal question list that matches your current growth goals
Build a short list of active questions that track the behaviors most relevant to your life right now — not a fixed template.
- The daily scoring ritual
Score each question at the same time each day — consistency matters more than perfect accuracy.
- Weekly trend analysis from daily scores
Review your scores at the end of each week to spot patterns rather than reacting to single-day noise.
- Sharing scores with an accountability partner
Send your daily scores to someone — the act of disclosure meaningfully increases follow-through.
- Graduating a question when the behavior becomes automatic
Retire a question from the list when it scores consistently 8 or above — mastery earned is bandwidth freed.
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