Coaching practices for Alternative Behavior Plan

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Does this sound like the set of challenges you might be facing?

• My plans hold up fine until something throws them off
• I can see where I went wrong and I swear I’ll handle it differently next time, but when the moment actually comes I freeze with no idea what else to do
• There are a few situations that go badly every single time
• I can see exactly the moment I’m going to slip
• It’s always the same thing that knocks me off

Practices that may help

1. Plan for obstacles with coping plans
   Anticipate the specific obstacles most likely to block your plan and pre-decide your response to each.
   Action Planning
2. Action Planning
   Action planning — specifying when, where, and how you will execute a goal-directed behavior — is one of the best-supported techniques for closing the intention-behavior gap. Orbell and Sheeran’s research, along with Peter Gollwitzer’s work on implementation intentions, shows that forming specific plans reliably increases behavior over vague intentions alone, with meta-analytic effect sizes in the small-to-medium range.
3. Generate a solution analysis for the most accessible intervention point
   For your chosen intervention point, brainstorm and commit to one specific alternative.
   Behavioral Chain Analysis: The DBT Method for Understanding Problem Behaviors
4. Behavioral Chain Analysis: The DBT Method for Understanding Problem Behaviors
   Behavioral chain analysis (BCA), a core DBT skill developed by Marsha Linehan, maps every link in the chain of events — from the original vulnerability through the triggering event, thoughts, feelings, and actions — that led to a problem behavior. By making the chain visible, BCA reveals multiple points where the sequence could have been broken, turning a post-hoc autopsy into a concrete prevention plan.
5. Plan behavior management strategies in advance
   Decide how you will respond to predictable problems before they happen.
   Triple P Parenting (Matthew Sanders)
6. Form an if-then plan linking the obstacle to a specific response
   "If [obstacle occurs], then I will [specific action]" — this plan is what converts mental contrasting into behavior change.
   Mental Contrasting and WOOP
7. Opposite Action: Acting Against the Emotion’s Urge
   Opposite action is a DBT skill: when an emotion does not fit the facts or acting on it would not help, you deliberately do the opposite of what it urges — approach what fear says to avoid, engage when depression says to withdraw. It works because behavior feeds back into emotion, so changing the action gradually changes the feeling. It is an established clinical technique used here as an everyday regulation skill, not a substitute for treatment of serious mental-health conditions.
8. Use if–then commitments for predictable barriers
   Pre-plan your response to the specific situations most likely to derail the action.
   Committed Action, Made Practical
9. Use differential reinforcement to increase desired behavior while reducing unwanted behavior
   Reinforce the behavior you want while withholding reinforcement from the one you don’t — at the same time.
   Operant Conditioning and Schedules of Reinforcement
10. Match your intervention type to the COM-B gap
    Use the Behavior Change Wheel to select the intervention approach that fits the diagnosed gap — not your default.
    The COM-B Model and Behavior Change Wheel

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