Coaching practices for Arousal Regulation

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  • Right before something that matters my heart pounds and my hands buzz, and I read all of it as a warning to back out
  • My body is buzzing before the big moment and telling myself to "calm down" only makes it worse
  • My heart’s pounding, my thoughts are racing, and I keep trying to think my way calm but my body is still floored
  • I’m about to do something that matters and I just feel flat and half-asleep
  • Right before I go on, my heart’s pounding, my hands are shaking, my mind’s gone tunnel-narrow and blank

Practices that may help

  1. Reappraise discomfort as a signal of engagement
    Interpreting physiological arousal as excitement rather than threat changes its effect on performance.
    Embracing Discomfort: Turning Resistance Into Growth
  2. Arousal Reappraisal: "I’m Excited, Not Anxious"
    Reinterpret physiological arousal as excitement rather than anxiety — they share the same physiology.
    The Yerkes-Dodson Law: Finding Your Optimal Performance Zone
  3. Come down from hyperarousal
    When you are over the top edge, use the body to bring arousal back down.
    The Window of Tolerance: Your Optimal Arousal Zone
  4. Activation Strategies for Under-Arousal
    Use brief, targeted techniques to raise activation when you’re too flat to perform well.
    The Yerkes-Dodson Law: Finding Your Optimal Performance Zone
  5. De-activation Strategies for Over-Arousal
    Use targeted techniques to reduce arousal when anxiety or over-activation is undermining performance.
    The Yerkes-Dodson Law: Finding Your Optimal Performance Zone
  6. Match your routine’s arousal level to the task demand
    Fine-tune whether your routine should up-regulate or down-regulate your energy before the performance.
    Pre-Performance Routines, Made Practical
  7. Catch co-dysregulation before it spirals
    Two activated nervous systems feed each other — notice the loop and have one person step out.
    Co-Regulation: Borrowing Calm From Another Nervous System
  8. Calibrating Your Activation Level Before Performance
    Assess whether you’re under- or over-activated for the task at hand — then adjust before beginning.
    The Yerkes-Dodson Law: Finding Your Optimal Performance Zone
  9. Monitoring Your Performance Zone in Real Time
    Learn your personal arousal signals and check them periodically during extended performance tasks.
    The Yerkes-Dodson Law: Finding Your Optimal Performance Zone
  10. Use progressive relaxation to lower resting arousal
    Lower your physiological baseline so provocations have less arousal to add.
    Novaco Anger Management, Made Practical

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