Coaching practices for Hyperarousal and Hypoarousal

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Does this sound like the set of challenges you might be facing?

• My heart’s pounding, my thoughts are racing, and I keep trying to think my way calm but my body is still floored
• Right before something that matters my heart pounds and my hands buzz, and I read all of it as a warning to back out
• Right before I go on, my heart’s pounding, my hands are shaking, my mind’s gone tunnel-narrow and blank
• My body is buzzing before the big moment and telling myself to "calm down" only makes it worse
• My heart pounds and my breath goes shallow before the big moment, and I instantly read it as a sign I’m about to fail

Practices that may help

1. Come down from hyperarousal
   When you are over the top edge, use the body to bring arousal back down.
   The Window of Tolerance: Your Optimal Arousal Zone
2. Reappraise discomfort as a signal of engagement
   Interpreting physiological arousal as excitement rather than threat changes its effect on performance.
   Embracing Discomfort: Turning Resistance Into Growth
3. De-activation Strategies for Over-Arousal
   Use targeted techniques to reduce arousal when anxiety or over-activation is undermining performance.
   The Yerkes-Dodson Law: Finding Your Optimal Performance Zone
4. Arousal Reappraisal: "I’m Excited, Not Anxious"
   Reinterpret physiological arousal as excitement rather than anxiety — they share the same physiology.
   The Yerkes-Dodson Law: Finding Your Optimal Performance Zone
5. Reframe physiological arousal as challenge activation, not threat
   Tell yourself the racing heart is your body preparing to perform — because physiologically, it often is.
   Challenge vs. Threat Appraisal, Made Practical
6. Calibrating Your Activation Level Before Performance
   Assess whether you’re under- or over-activated for the task at hand — then adjust before beginning.
   The Yerkes-Dodson Law: Finding Your Optimal Performance Zone
7. Reappraise physiological arousal as activation, not anxiety
   Tell yourself "I’m excited" rather than "I’m nervous" — the physiology is identical; the label changes performance.
   The Clutch State: Performing Under Pressure
8. Reattribute physical arousal as excitement, not fear
   The racing heart before a social situation is the same physiology as excitement — choose that label.
   Overcoming Shyness: Philip Zimbardo’s Framework
9. Catch co-dysregulation before it spirals
   Two activated nervous systems feed each other — notice the loop and have one person step out.
   Co-Regulation: Borrowing Calm From Another Nervous System
10. Havening to clear pre-performance anxiety
    Run a short havening sequence before a high-stakes event to lower physiological anxiety.
    Self-Havening: Calming the Nervous System Through Touch

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