Coaching practices for Awe Reduces Ego
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Does this sound like the set of challenges you might be facing?
- Everything feels like a five-alarm emergency and my own ego is wound so tight around it all
- The moment someone challenges my call I feel myself bristle and start building a case for why I’m right, and I’ve noticed people have basically stopped bringing me bad news
- For a little while right after something takes my breath away, the stuff I’d been stressing about genuinely feels smaller and farther off
- I shrink my life down to avoid any chance of looking foolish
- So much of my energy goes into managing how good I look
Practices that may help
- Deep time humility
Situate yourself in deep geological and historical time to shrink ego-urgency and expand perspective.
The Good Ancestor: Long-Path Thinking for a Meaningful Life - Check the ego
Ego clouds judgment, blocks feedback, and turns disagreements into contests.
Extreme Ownership, Made Practical - Write from a small-self perspective after awe
After an awe experience, write briefly from the perspective of someone whose personal concerns feel appropriately small.
Awe and Well-Being, Made Practical - Awe and the Small Self
Dacher Keltner’s research shows that awe — the response to something vast that exceeds our current frame — reliably produces the "small self": a felt diminishment of individual concerns that is experienced as expansive rather than deflating. This shift reduces self-focused rumination, increases prosocial behavior, and expands the sense of available time. The core effects are well replicated; the neural and downstream health claims are more preliminary. - Shame-attacking exercises
Do something mildly embarrassing on purpose to prove you can survive and function through discomfort.
Unconditional Self-Acceptance - Shift the goal from high self-esteem to authentic self-regard
Stop trying to feel good about yourself and start aiming for honest, compassionate self-knowledge.
Self-Worth vs. Self-Esteem - Observe the self with mindful distance
Watch self-critical and self-inflating thoughts with curiosity rather than fusion — you are not what you think about yourself.
Self-Worth vs. Self-Esteem - Use awe to reconnect with something larger than yourself
When awe makes the self feel small, follow the natural impulse toward belonging — toward community, nature, or humanity at large.
Awe and Well-Being, Made Practical - Write about a value that matters to you
Before a stressful or threatening situation, spend five minutes writing about a value that is genuinely important to you.
Self-Affirmation Theory, Made Practical - Seek out awe as a broadening and self-transcending emotion
Awe expands perceived time, reduces self-focused thought, and increases prosocial behavior — and it can be deliberately accessed.
Broaden-and-Build, Made Practical
Related concerns
- Awe And The Small Self
Dacher Keltner’s research shows that awe — the response to something vast that exceeds our current frame — reliably produces the "small self": a felt diminishment of individual concerns that is experienced as expansive rather than deflating. This shift reduces self-focused rumination, increases prosocial behavior, and expands the sense of available time. The core effects are well replicated; the neural and downstream health claims are more preliminary.
- Awe And The Small Self During A Big Change
Dacher Keltner’s research shows that awe — the response to something vast that exceeds our current frame — reliably produces the "small self": a felt diminishment of individual concerns that is experienced as expansive rather than deflating. This shift reduces self-focused rumination, increases prosocial behavior, and expands the sense of available time. The core effects are well replicated; the neural and downstream health claims are more preliminary.
- Awe And The Small Self For My Teenager
Dacher Keltner’s research shows that awe — the response to something vast that exceeds our current frame — reliably produces the "small self": a felt diminishment of individual concerns that is experienced as expansive rather than deflating. This shift reduces self-focused rumination, increases prosocial behavior, and expands the sense of available time. The core effects are well replicated; the neural and downstream health claims are more preliminary.
- Awe And The Small Self Under Stress
Dacher Keltner’s research shows that awe — the response to something vast that exceeds our current frame — reliably produces the "small self": a felt diminishment of individual concerns that is experienced as expansive rather than deflating. This shift reduces self-focused rumination, increases prosocial behavior, and expands the sense of available time. The core effects are well replicated; the neural and downstream health claims are more preliminary.
- Feeling Small In A Good Way
Seek experiences that make you feel small in a good way — and notice the relief in it.
Courting the small self
- How To Experience Small Self
Seek an encounter with something genuinely vast to let your personal concerns be re-proportioned.
Deliberately invoke the small-self shift
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