Coaching practices for Behavioral Description

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Does this sound like the set of challenges you might be facing?

  • I keep doing this thing I hate myself for afterward, and it makes no sense until I admit it does give me something in the moment
  • In my head it goes straight from something setting me off to me doing the thing, like one instant jump with nothing in between
  • I’m finally ready to actually do the thing I’ve been dreading and just watch what really happens
  • I keep telling myself I lack discipline, but the behavior I want to stop doesn’t feel like a choice
  • Nobody around me does this thing, so I’m always the odd one out swimming against the room

Practices that may help

  1. Behavioral Chain Analysis: The DBT Method for Understanding Problem Behaviors
    Behavioral chain analysis (BCA), a core DBT skill developed by Marsha Linehan, maps every link in the chain of events — from the original vulnerability through the triggering event, thoughts, feelings, and actions — that led to a problem behavior. By making the chain visible, BCA reveals multiple points where the sequence could have been broken, turning a post-hoc autopsy into a concrete prevention plan.
  2. Map the short-term and long-term consequences of the behavior
    List what the behavior actually produced — good and bad, immediate and delayed.
    Behavioral Chain Analysis: The DBT Method for Understanding Problem Behaviors
  3. Map every link in the chain — thoughts, feelings, urges, actions
    Walk from the prompting event to the problem behavior one step at a time, naming each link explicitly.
    Behavioral Chain Analysis: The DBT Method for Understanding Problem Behaviors
  4. Running the Experiment and Observing Results
    Do the planned activity, observe what actually happens, and record results immediately.
    Behavioral Experiments: Testing Beliefs in the Real World
  5. Identify the stimulus driving the behavior you want to change
    Map the exact cues — environmental, sensory, or social — that reliably precede the target behavior.
    Stimulus Control, Made Practical
  6. Behavioral Experiments: Testing Beliefs in the Real World
    Behavioral experiments are planned real-world activities in CBT that directly test the accuracy of a negative belief or prediction. Instead of just challenging thoughts on paper, the person collects live evidence for or against the belief — and that experiential evidence is often more belief-changing than logical argument alone. They are a core and well-supported component of CBT for anxiety, depression, and related difficulties.
  7. Use social opportunity — others who make the behavior normal
    Position yourself in social contexts where your target behavior is modeled, expected, or easy to perform with others.
    The COM-B Model and Behavior Change Wheel
  8. Designing the Experiment
    Plan a real-world activity that will generate clear evidence for or against the belief.
    Behavioral Experiments: Testing Beliefs in the Real World
  9. Describe behavior, not character
    Say what the person did — actions, words — not what that says about who they are.
    The SBI Feedback Model, Made Practical
  10. Diagnose which element — motivation, ability, or prompt — is the bottleneck
    When a behavior isn’t happening, ask: Is the person motivated enough? Can they do it? Are they being prompted?
    The Fogg Behavior Model, Made Practical

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