Coaching practices for Breaking Deadlock Negotiation
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Does this sound like the set of challenges you might be facing?
- We’re deadlocked because they’re certain the numbers will land one way and I’m just as certain they won’t
- We’re completely deadlocked on the one number
- We finally reached a deal, but I have this nagging sense we both grabbed the first version that worked just to be done
- We’ve just shaken hands on something we both accepted, but I have this nagging sense the deal isn’t as good as it could be for either of us
- The deal is closed and fine, but I keep negotiating in the dark
Practices that may help
- Write contingent contracts when forecasts disagree
If you and the other side have different predictions, let the outcome decide who was right.
Expanding the Pie: Negotiation Beyond Splitting the Difference - Expand the ZOPA by adding issues to the negotiation
When you’re stuck on a single issue, adding more issues often creates room for trades that satisfy both sides.
ZOPA: The Zone of Possible Agreement - Use a post-settlement settlement to improve a deal after agreement
Once you have a deal, offer to keep exploring whether a better one exists for both sides.
Expanding the Pie: Negotiation Beyond Splitting the Difference - Propose a post-settlement settlement to optimize an agreed deal
After reaching a deal, offer to see if you can both do better — many agreements leave joint value on the table.
ZOPA: The Zone of Possible Agreement - Run a negotiation debrief to learn what value was left on the table
After closing, compare priorities with the other side to see the trades you both missed.
Expanding the Pie: Negotiation Beyond Splitting the Difference - Compromising (moderate on both)
Split the difference when a fast, fair, good-enough solution beats holding out for the perfect one.
The Five Conflict-Resolution Styles - Focus on interests, not positions
Ask why a position is taken — the underlying interest is almost always more negotiable than the stated demand.
Principled Negotiation, Made Practical - Insist on objective criteria
Anchor the deal to independent standards — market rates, precedent, expert opinion — not willpower.
Getting to Yes: Principled Negotiation - Use a pre-agreed pause protocol
Pre-negotiate how you will interrupt the cycle before it starts, not during it.
The Pursuer-Withdrawer Cycle, Explained - Share information to unlock value
Reveal interests (not your bottom line) so both sides can find the better deal.
Win-Win Thinking: Expanding the Pie
Related concerns
- When Expanding The Pie Post Settlement Settlement
Once you have a deal, offer to keep exploring whether a better one exists for both sides.
Use a post-settlement settlement to improve a deal after agreement
- Logrolling Negotiation
Give the counterpart what they care most about; get what you care most about — logrolling is only possible when interests differ.
Trade across issues where each side has different priorities
- Package Deal Negotiation
Propose several package deals of equal value to you — see which the other side prefers.
Make multiple equivalent simultaneous offers (MESOs)
- Reset The Negotiation
Decide in advance what you are willing to accept short of your full ask, and be ready to offer something in exchange.
Negotiate: know your minimum and be willing to give and take
- When Win Win Thinking Use Contingent Contracts
When you disagree about the future, bet on it — tie terms to what actually happens.
Bridge disagreements with contingent terms
- Why Negotiations Stall
After closing, compare priorities with the other side to see the trades you both missed.
Run a negotiation debrief to learn what value was left on the table
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