Coaching practices for Building Positive Emotions After a Loss
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Does this sound like the set of challenges you might be facing?
- It’s been long enough that I can quietly admit something in me has shifted since they died
- I’m in the middle of something genuinely hard, and when a small good moment shows up I push it away as if letting myself feel it would be disrespecting how heavy this all is.
- My days have flattened into nothing but obligations and dread, and there’s no good stuff banked anywhere
- When I think about that hard chapter I swing between “it was pure loss” and “it was secretly a gift,” and neither one feels honest
- I keep my small wins to myself because it feels like bragging, so they quietly evaporate
Practices that may help
- Look honestly for what has grown or changed for the better
Without minimising the loss, notice any growth, change, or perspective that has emerged from it.
Meaning Reconstruction in Grief, Made Practical - Access positive emotion during adversity, not after
In the midst of stress and difficulty, finding even small genuine positive moments is a resilience mechanism, not a betrayal of the difficulty.
Broaden-and-Build, Made Practical - Building Positive Emotions, Made Practical
Positive emotions can be cultivated deliberately through practices that vary what triggers them: gratitude, savoring, meaningful engagement, kindness, and awe are the most studied routes. Barbara Fredrickson’s broaden-and-build theory proposes that positive emotions expand thinking and build psychological resources over time — supported by observational research, though some specific claims (like the 3:1 ratio) have not replicated. The individual practices have varying but mostly real evidence bases. - Accumulate positive experiences
Deliberately do things that generate positive emotion — building a reservoir that distress draws from.
DBT Emotion Regulation Skills, Made Practical - Name the genuine benefits — without erasing the cost
List specific real positives that came from a hard experience while still acknowledging what it cost.
Benefit-Finding: Locating Meaning and Growth in Adversity - Share wins with someone who will genuinely celebrate with you
Name a specific small win to a person who will respond with real positivity — amplifying the emotional signal.
Celebrating Small Wins - Savoring positive experiences
Slow down and linger in a pleasant experience — letting it register fully rather than rushing through or narrating it away.
Building Positive Emotions, Made Practical - Distinguish genuine growth from positive illusions
Learn to tell the difference between real benefits that changed how you live and comfortable stories that protect you from fully processing the loss.
Benefit-Finding in Adversity, Made Practical - Meaningful engagement
Spend regular time doing something that generates both positive emotion and a sense of purpose.
Building Positive Emotions, Made Practical - Practice active-constructive responding (relationships pillar)
Respond to others’ good news with genuine, engaged enthusiasm rather than passive acknowledgment.
Seligman’s PERMA Model, Made Practical
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- Building Positive Emotions In A New Job
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