Coaching practices for Clarifying Goals Therapy
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Does this sound like the set of challenges you might be facing?
- I’m busy chasing things but half of them feel like what I’m supposed to want, not what I actually do
- Everything I say I want is really a thing I want to stop
- Every time I set goals they end up being what I think I’m supposed to want
- When someone I’m coaching brings me a topic, we just end up circling it and venting
- I keep saying I want things to "get better" or to "do better," but it’s so fuzzy I can’t even tell what moving toward it would look like
Practices that may help
- Values clarification
Name the directions you want your life to move in, distinct from goals you can check off.
Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT), Made Practical - Using the Miracle Question for Goal Clarification
Apply the miracle question to clarify the real goal underneath an initially stated complaint or problem.
The Miracle Question: Designing Your Life Without the Problem - Excavate core values before writing goals
Identify what you most fundamentally care about before deciding what you want — or goals will be other people’s.
The Life Crafting Intervention: Scripting Your Future Self - Clarify the Goal with precision
Establish exactly what the person wants to achieve — not the presenting topic, but the specific, owned outcome.
The GROW Coaching Model, Made Practical - Clarify the goal with enough specificity to route toward it
Hope requires a clear enough destination that routes can be mapped; a vague wish cannot anchor pathways thinking.
Hope Theory: Agency, Pathways, and Getting Unstuck - Set the Goal — establish what the conversation is for
Begin every coaching conversation by clarifying what the person wants to achieve in this session.
The GROW Model: Coaching Conversations That Actually Move People - One-minute goals: write them short enough to re-read in a minute
A goal that cannot be stated on a single page is too vague to be evaluated or acted on.
The One Minute Manager: Three Practices That Still Work - Three-goals prioritization: objective, relationship, or self-respect?
Before entering a difficult conversation, decide which of the three goals matters most right now.
DBT Interpersonal Effectiveness: Getting What You Need Without Destroying the Relationship - Preferred Future: Describing Life When the Problem Is Solved
Ask the person to describe in concrete, behavioral detail what life looks like when things are better.
Solution-Focused Brief Therapy: Building On What Works - Report against specific, verifiable commitments
Tell your partner exactly what you will do, so "progress" can be confirmed, not fudged.
Accountability Partners
Related concerns
- Goal Clarification Therapy
The CPT challenging beliefs worksheet is a structured, written process for examining one stuck point at a time.
Use a challenging beliefs worksheet to work a stuck point completely
- Clarify Your Goal Coaching
Establish exactly what the person wants to achieve — not the presenting topic, but the specific, owned outcome.
Clarify the Goal with precision
- Clarify Your Goals
A goal that cannot be stated on a single page is too vague to be evaluated or acted on.
One-minute goals: write them short enough to re-read in a minute
- Communication Goal Setting
Establish exactly what the person wants to achieve — not the presenting topic, but the specific, owned outcome.
- Couples Goal Setting
A shared list is harder to defer and more motivating than a solo one — and the experiences themselves are richer.
Create a shared bucket list with people you love
- Self Concordant Goals With My Team
Keep the goal yours even when a coach, boss, or partner is involved in it.
Protect your sense of autonomy while pursuing the goal
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