Coaching practices for Coaching for Learning

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Does this sound like the set of challenges you might be facing?

• When I replay my coaching conversations I’m talking way more than the other person
• I practice on my own and only ever find out afterward that the whole thing was wrong, with no idea where I went off the rails
• I think I’m asking questions, but they’re really suggestions in disguise
• When I coach people, almost everything out of my mouth is about their body
• When I help someone learn I either smother them with so much help they never struggle, or leave them stranded and lost

Practices that may help

1. Maintain a high question-to-statement ratio throughout GROW
   Ask questions far more often than you offer statements — the coachee’s thinking is the product.
   The GROW Model: Coaching Conversations That Actually Move People
2. Coached practice with targeted feedback
   Attempt the task yourself while a coach observes and provides immediate, specific feedback on process.
   Cognitive Apprenticeship: Learning by Making Thinking Visible
3. Powerful open questions at every stage
   Ask questions that invite thinking, not ones that suggest answers — and ask more than you tell.
   The GROW Coaching Model, Made Practical
4. Rewrite internal-focus coaching cues as external-focus equivalents
   Audit your coaching language and convert body-focused instructions to effect-focused ones.
   External Focus of Attention, Made Practical
5. The Leader as Coach: A New Management Paradigm
   Leading as a coach means creating space for people to think and grow rather than solving every problem for them. The approach draws on coaching methodology — asking over telling, listening before advising — and is supported by research on autonomy, self-efficacy, and learning. The shift is behaviorally demanding because telling feels faster and more capable, even when it systematically reduces the people around you.
6. Provide contingent support: more help when needed, less when not
   Calibrate help to the learner’s actual performance moment by moment rather than delivering a fixed dose.
   Scaffolding: The Art of Temporary Learning Support
7. Replace performance review conversations with feedforward conversations
   In coaching conversations, ask "what could you do differently?" instead of "what went wrong?"
   Feedforward: Future-Focused Feedback That Actually Changes Behavior
8. Use GROW in brief leadership conversations, not just formal coaching sessions
   Apply GROW structure to 5-minute hallway conversations and 1-on-1 check-ins — not only to hour-long coaching sessions.
   The GROW Model: Coaching Conversations That Actually Move People
9. Learn with someone more capable than you
   A skilled partner lifts your performance into new territory you cannot reach alone.
   Zone of Proximal Development: Learning at Your Real Edge
10. Give performers choice within practice to support autonomy
    Offer self-directed options in practice — which drill, how many reps, which cue — to enhance intrinsic motivation and learning.
    External Focus of Attention, Made Practical

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