Coaching practices for Curate Social Media
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- There are certain accounts I follow that leave me feeling small and behind every single time their posts show up, and yet I keep scrolling past them
- I tell myself I’m on here to stay connected to people, but when I’m honest it’s mostly just silent scrolling past strangers, and I always come away feeling lonelier and more behind than when I started, not closer to anyone.
- It’s the endless passive scrolling through other people’s lives that leaves me hollow and envious
- I tell myself I’m staying connected, but really I just scroll and watch for an hour without ever talking to a single person
- In the moment their life looks effortlessly perfect and mine looks like a mess by comparison
Practices that may help
- Conduct a quarterly unfollow audit
Every three months, unfollow or mute any account that consistently produces comparison, envy, or resentment.
The 2-Hour Social Media Cap - Distinguish between content consumption and genuine connection
Reserve platform use for genuine social interaction and ruthlessly cut pure content consumption.
The Attention Economy: Reclaiming Your Focus from Systems Designed to Capture It - Replace passive scrolling with active, intentional social media use
Use social media to create, connect, and respond — not to scroll.
The 2-Hour Social Media Cap - Distinguish passive from active social media use
Scrolling and watching (passive) consistently harms wellbeing more than direct messaging and commenting (active).
Social Comparison Online: What the Research Actually Shows - Social Comparison Online: What the Research Actually Shows
Research by Vogel, Rose, and colleagues finds that passive social media use drives upward social comparison — comparing yourself unfavorably to curated, idealized profiles — and consistently reduces self-evaluations and mood. Active, direct engagement has weaker negative effects. The most effective interventions reduce passive consumption and build awareness of the comparison mechanism. - Practice deliberate curation awareness — remind yourself of what you are not seeing
When you notice comparison, recall explicitly that you are seeing a highlight reel, not a life.
Social Comparison Online: What the Research Actually Shows - Curate your feed to reduce highly idealized and celebrity accounts
Unfollow or mute accounts whose posts consistently leave you feeling worse about yourself.
Social Comparison Online: What the Research Actually Shows - Reserve social media for after 10 AM
Do not open social media until at least an hour after waking — protect the morning attention window.
The 2-Hour Social Media Cap - Design a media diet with explicit inclusion criteria
Specify in advance what media you will consume, from which sources, and for how long — rather than consuming whatever the algorithm serves.
The Attention Economy: Reclaiming Your Focus from Systems Designed to Capture It - Restrict social media to scheduled daily access windows
Limit social media to one or two daily slots rather than allowing it to run as a background tab.
Notification Batching: Taking Back Control of Your Attention
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Use social media to create, connect, and respond — not to scroll.
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Reserve platform use for genuine social interaction and ruthlessly cut pure content consumption.
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- Social Media And Mental Health
Research by Vogel, Rose, and colleagues finds that passive social media use drives upward social comparison — comparing yourself unfavorably to curated, idealized profiles — and consistently reduces self-evaluations and mood. Active, direct engagement has weaker negative effects. The most effective interventions reduce passive consumption and build awareness of the comparison mechanism.
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