Coaching practices for Design Thinking Step by Step During Conflict

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• I treated the whole thing like a checklist and shipped the first version because I’d "finished the steps"
• We solve the immediate thing but the same ugly dynamic underneath stays exactly the same, so the next disagreement plays out identically
• I built the thing I was sure people wanted and it just didn’t land
• Somewhere in this I stopped seeing a problem we both have and started seeing the other person AS the problem
• We’re about to sit down to hash this out and I can already feel us both arriving armed, each braced to win our version

Practices that may help

1. Design Thinking, Step by Step
   Design thinking is a five-stage problem-solving framework — empathize, define, ideate, prototype, test — popularized by IDEO and the Stanford d.school. It is a process model, not a tested intervention: its value comes from forcing you to understand the user before you commit to a solution, and to learn cheaply through prototypes instead of expensive bets.
2. Iterate — treat the stages as a loop, not a line
   Cycle back to earlier stages as testing reveals you framed the wrong problem.
   Design Thinking, Step by Step
3. Transform the relationship, not just the issue
   Use each conflict as an opportunity to raise the quality of the relationship itself.
   The Third Alternative, Made Practical
4. Empathize — understand the user first
   Observe and interview the people you are designing for before forming any solution.
   Design Thinking, Step by Step
5. Separate the person from the problem
   Treat the conflict as a problem you face together, not a contest you fight each other.
   The Third Alternative, Made Practical
6. Ask "Are you willing to find a solution better than either of us has thought of?"
   Open the conversation with a single question that resets both parties from adversaries to co-creators.
   The Third Alternative, Made Practical
7. Make the third alternative tangible with a prototype or model
   Turn an abstract third-alternative idea into something both parties can react to together.
   The Third Alternative, Made Practical
8. Recognize when to shift modes mid-conflict
   The mode that’s right at the start of a conversation may not be right ten minutes in.
   The Thomas–Kilmann Conflict Mode Instrument (TKI)
9. Use a storytelling round to build mutual understanding before solving
   Before moving to resolution, give each person a round to tell their experience of what happened.
   The Circle Process (Kay Pranis)
10. Adapt your conflict approach to the other person’s DISC style
    Conflict lands differently for each style — match your approach to reduce defensiveness.
    DISC Behavioral Styles

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