Coaching practices for Designing Your Life Four Gauges

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Does this sound like the set of challenges you might be facing?

  • I’m about to make a big call about my life from a totally drained place
  • I’ve got exactly one picture of how my next five years go and I keep polishing it, but it’s never occurred to me to seriously imagine a completely different life
  • I’ve quietly decided there’s only one acceptable version of my life and I’m white-knuckling toward it
  • I keep waiting for some lightning-bolt moment of clarity to tell me what I’m meant to do, and it never comes
  • There’s this other life I daydream about constantly, but it stays a fantasy in my head

Practices that may help

  1. Track your life gauges: work, play, love, health
    Monitor how full your "energy tanks" in four life domains are before making a major plan decision.
    Odyssey Plans: Designing Three Alternative Futures
  2. Designing Your Life, Made Practical
    Bill Burnett and Dave Evans’ Stanford method treats your life like a design problem: you don’t "find" the one right answer, you prototype your way toward several good ones. The core moves — reframing stuck beliefs, drafting multiple Odyssey Plans, and running small prototypes — are practitioner tools adapted from design thinking, well-reasoned but not formally outcome-tested as a package.
  3. Draft three Odyssey Plans
    Sketch three different five-year lives — not variations on one, but genuinely divergent paths.
    Designing Your Life, Made Practical
  4. Draft three genuinely different five-year plans
    Sketch three distinct five-year lives — not variations on the same theme, but genuinely different directions.
    Odyssey Plans: Designing Three Alternative Futures
  5. Wayfinding with a Good Time Journal
    Track when you feel engaged and energized to find direction from data, not a sudden epiphany.
    Designing Your Life, Made Practical
  6. Prototype with conversations and experiences
    Test a possible path cheaply — talk to someone living it, or try a small slice — before betting on it.
    Designing Your Life, Made Practical
  7. Rate each plan on confidence, interest, and coherence
    Score each plan on whether you find it engaging, whether you could execute it, and whether it fits who you are.
    Odyssey Plans: Designing Three Alternative Futures
  8. Ikigai quarterly review
    Every three months, map the intersection of what you love, what you are good at, what the world needs, and what you can be paid for.
    Purpose Anchors: Keeping Meaning Accessible Day to Day
  9. Write your Workview and Lifeview
    Articulate what work is for and what life is for — then check whether they point the same way.
    Designing Your Life, Made Practical
  10. Run a small experiment before committing to Plan B or C
    Design the smallest possible real-world experience that would tell you something true about a plan before you commit to it.
    Odyssey Plans: Designing Three Alternative Futures

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