Coaching practices for Do Your Best vs Specific Goal
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Does this sound like the set of challenges you might be facing?
- I keep telling myself to "do my best" and "get better," and it just evaporates
- I keep telling myself things like "try harder" and "stay focused," and then in the moment those words give me nothing to actually grab onto
- My goal is something inspiring like “get in the best shape of my life” or “grow the business”
- No matter how much I improve, my goals are always pegged to beating other people
- I keep saying I want to "get healthier" or "be more present," but it stays a foggy wish
Practices that may help
- Set specific, hard goals rather than "do your best"
Replace vague aspirations with a precise, stretching target — this is the core lever.
Goal Setting Theory, Made Practical - Make process goals behaviorally specific enough to direct attention
A vague process goal ("try harder") is not a process goal — it must specify what to do with your body and attention.
Process Goals, Made Practical - Make stretch goals specific, not just big
A stretch goal must be specific and measurable to trigger the mechanisms that make it work.
Stretch Goals: When Ambitious Targets Help and When They Backfire - Orient toward mastery rather than performance comparison
Set goals against your own past standard rather than against others.
Approach vs Avoidance Goals - Specific — name the exact behavior or result
Replace “get fit” with a single, concrete target you could photograph or count.
SMART Goals That Actually Move - Design process goals that are specific, observable, and within your control
Process goals must be both actionable (you can do them) and observable (you can confirm you did them).
Process vs. Outcome Goals in Sport and Performance - Use learning goals instead of performance goals on novel tasks
When the skill is new, a "figure out how to do X" goal outperforms "achieve X by date."
Stretch Goals: When Ambitious Targets Help and When They Backfire - Understand the three-goal hierarchy: outcome, performance, process
Use all three goal types — but know which one to focus on during execution.
Process Goals, Made Practical - Wish — name a meaningful, challenging goal
Pick one wish that is hard but feasible, and that genuinely matters to you.
WOOP: Wish, Outcome, Obstacle, Plan - Achievable — set it within reach, but honestly
Calibrate the goal to your real resources so effort feels worth starting.
SMART Goals That Actually Move
Related concerns
- Specific Goals And Effort
Replace vague aspirations with a precise, stretching target — this is the core lever.
Set specific, hard goals rather than "do your best"
- Feasible Goals
Calibrate the goal to your real resources so effort feels worth starting.
Achievable — set it within reach, but honestly
- Goal Setting For Athletes
Process goals focus on the specific behaviors and techniques under the performer’s direct control (how you execute) rather than on outcomes (whether you win). Sport psychology research consistently finds that process goals maintain attention on controllable actions, reduce anxiety, and improve performance consistency — especially under pressure — while pure outcome goals can undermine both.
- How To Make A Goal Specific
A stretch goal must be specific and measurable to trigger the mechanisms that make it work.
Make stretch goals specific, not just big
- How To Set Detailed Performance Goals
A vague process goal ("try harder") is not a process goal — it must specify what to do with your body and attention.
Make process goals behaviorally specific enough to direct attention
- Specific Difficult Goals
A vague process goal ("try harder") is not a process goal — it must specify what to do with your body and attention.
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