Coaching practices for Drop Safety Behaviors Exposure

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  • Every time I get through a feared situation I credit the crutch
  • I can only handle the scary situation if I’ve got my little crutch
  • I can get through the scary thing now, but only with my little crutches
  • I get through the hard situations, but only with my little crutches
  • I only get through hard moments by clutching my little crutches

Practices that may help

  1. Safety Behavior Fading, Made Practical
    Safety behaviors are actions people take to prevent feared outcomes during anxious situations — sitting to avoid fainting, avoiding eye contact to seem less socially threatening, checking repeatedly to prevent disaster. Paul Salkovskis identified them as a central maintenance mechanism: they prevent the person from learning that the feared outcome would not have happened anyway. Fading them — systematically reducing their use — is an evidence-supported component of CBT for anxiety disorders, with the strongest evidence in panic and social anxiety.
  2. Run a disconfirmation experiment without the safety behavior
    Enter the feared situation without the safety behavior and observe what actually happens.
    Safety Behavior Fading, Made Practical
  3. Gradually drop safety behaviors
    Safety behaviors (a phone, a companion, a pill) reduce distress in the moment but prevent the learning that exposure is meant to produce.
    The Fear Ladder: Graded Exposure Made Practical
  4. Eliminate safety behaviors
    Identify and drop the subtle actions that reduce anxiety but prevent learning you don’t need them.
    Exposure Therapy: Facing Fears to Shrink Them
  5. Dropping Safety Behaviors Within Experiments
    Remove the subtle avoidance strategies (safety behaviors) that prevent experiments from genuinely testing the belief.
    Behavioral Experiments: Testing Beliefs in the Real World
  6. Run exposures without safety behaviors
    Do induction exercises while deliberately leaving out the coping props you normally rely on.
    Interoceptive Exposure for Panic
  7. Respond productively to failure and bad news
    How you react in the first thirty seconds after a mistake either banks or burns safety.
    Psychological Safety, Made Practical
  8. Map your safety-behavior inventory
    List every action you take to prevent feared outcomes in anxiety-provoking situations.
    Safety Behavior Fading, Made Practical
  9. Set realistic expectations before each exposure
    Before you enter the situation, write down your feared prediction — then check it against reality afterward.
    The Fear Ladder: Graded Exposure Made Practical
  10. Violation of expectancy: test the feared prediction
    Before each exposure, make an explicit prediction of what will happen — then check whether you were right.
    Exposure Therapy: Facing Fears to Shrink Them

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