Coaching practices for Dropping Safety Behaviors Exposure Therapy

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  • I can get through the scary thing now, but only with my little crutches
  • I can only handle the scary situation if I’ve got my little crutch
  • I get through the hard situations, but only with my little crutches
  • I face the thing, nothing bad happens, and yet my fear never seems to update
  • I only get through hard moments by clutching my little crutches

Practices that may help

  1. Eliminate safety behaviors
    Identify and drop the subtle actions that reduce anxiety but prevent learning you don’t need them.
    Exposure Therapy: Facing Fears to Shrink Them
  2. Safety Behavior Fading, Made Practical
    Safety behaviors are actions people take to prevent feared outcomes during anxious situations — sitting to avoid fainting, avoiding eye contact to seem less socially threatening, checking repeatedly to prevent disaster. Paul Salkovskis identified them as a central maintenance mechanism: they prevent the person from learning that the feared outcome would not have happened anyway. Fading them — systematically reducing their use — is an evidence-supported component of CBT for anxiety disorders, with the strongest evidence in panic and social anxiety.
  3. Gradually drop safety behaviors
    Safety behaviors (a phone, a companion, a pill) reduce distress in the moment but prevent the learning that exposure is meant to produce.
    The Fear Ladder: Graded Exposure Made Practical
  4. Dropping Safety Behaviors Within Experiments
    Remove the subtle avoidance strategies (safety behaviors) that prevent experiments from genuinely testing the belief.
    Behavioral Experiments: Testing Beliefs in the Real World
  5. Violation of expectancy: test the feared prediction
    Before each exposure, make an explicit prediction of what will happen — then check whether you were right.
    Exposure Therapy: Facing Fears to Shrink Them
  6. Run exposures without safety behaviors
    Do induction exercises while deliberately leaving out the coping props you normally rely on.
    Interoceptive Exposure for Panic
  7. Run a disconfirmation experiment without the safety behavior
    Enter the feared situation without the safety behavior and observe what actually happens.
    Safety Behavior Fading, Made Practical
  8. Use controlled breathing to manage arousal during exposure
    A brief, slow-breathing technique modulates arousal during difficult exposure moments.
    Prolonged Exposure Therapy: Principles, Practices, and the Evidence
  9. Combine worry exposure with relaxation skill
    After the exposure period, apply a relaxation practice to close each session with a deactivation phase.
    Worry Exposure, Made Practical
  10. Practice between sessions, not just in them
    Gains made in a clinic or coaching session consolidate only if rehearsed in real life.
    The Fear Ladder: Graded Exposure Made Practical

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