Coaching practices for Safety Behaviors Exposure Therapy

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Does this sound like the set of challenges you might be facing?

  • I can only handle the scary situation if I’ve got my little crutch
  • I face the thing, nothing bad happens, and yet my fear never seems to update
  • I get through the hard situations, but only with my little crutches
  • I can get through the scary thing now, but only with my little crutches
  • When I make myself face the scary scenario I end up still wound up and rattled afterward, and then I dread doing it again

Practices that may help

  1. Gradually drop safety behaviors
    Safety behaviors (a phone, a companion, a pill) reduce distress in the moment but prevent the learning that exposure is meant to produce.
    The Fear Ladder: Graded Exposure Made Practical
  2. Safety Behavior Fading, Made Practical
    Safety behaviors are actions people take to prevent feared outcomes during anxious situations — sitting to avoid fainting, avoiding eye contact to seem less socially threatening, checking repeatedly to prevent disaster. Paul Salkovskis identified them as a central maintenance mechanism: they prevent the person from learning that the feared outcome would not have happened anyway. Fading them — systematically reducing their use — is an evidence-supported component of CBT for anxiety disorders, with the strongest evidence in panic and social anxiety.
  3. Violation of expectancy: test the feared prediction
    Before each exposure, make an explicit prediction of what will happen — then check whether you were right.
    Exposure Therapy: Facing Fears to Shrink Them
  4. Dropping Safety Behaviors Within Experiments
    Remove the subtle avoidance strategies (safety behaviors) that prevent experiments from genuinely testing the belief.
    Behavioral Experiments: Testing Beliefs in the Real World
  5. Exposure Therapy: Facing Fears to Shrink Them
    Exposure therapy is among the most empirically supported interventions in clinical psychology: it works by having you face feared situations, sensations, or thoughts in a structured way — long enough and repeatedly enough for the fear response to extinguish. Clinician-guided exposure is the gold standard for anxiety disorders; self-guided exposure using the same principles is effective for many manageable fears and is widely used in self-help and digital programs.
  6. Eliminate safety behaviors
    Identify and drop the subtle actions that reduce anxiety but prevent learning you don’t need them.
    Exposure Therapy: Facing Fears to Shrink Them
  7. Combine worry exposure with relaxation skill
    After the exposure period, apply a relaxation practice to close each session with a deactivation phase.
    Worry Exposure, Made Practical
  8. Use controlled breathing to manage arousal during exposure
    A brief, slow-breathing technique modulates arousal during difficult exposure moments.
    Prolonged Exposure Therapy: Principles, Practices, and the Evidence
  9. Run exposures without safety behaviors
    Do induction exercises while deliberately leaving out the coping props you normally rely on.
    Interoceptive Exposure for Panic
  10. Set realistic expectations before each exposure
    Before you enter the situation, write down your feared prediction — then check it against reality afterward.
    The Fear Ladder: Graded Exposure Made Practical

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