Coaching practices for Empirical Disputation
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Does this sound like the set of challenges you might be facing?
- We keep fighting on ten fronts at once and it’s exhausting and goes nowhere
- A flimsy study that confirms what I want I’ll wave straight through, but a solid one that contradicts me I’ll pick apart for hours
- I state every opinion like it’s flat-out fact, and then the other person hears a hard line and braces to defend theirs
- I notice I’m really arguing against this person
- We keep going in circles arguing about who’s right, both certain
Practices that may help
- Find the crux: the one claim that, if changed, would change the conclusion
Locate the single empirical or value disagreement driving the whole dispute.
Productive Disagreement, Made Practical - Productive Disagreement, Made Practical
Productive disagreement is possible when participants separate the goal of "winning" from the goal of reaching the best available conclusion. Research on epistemic practices suggests steel-manning, curiosity-before-rebuttal, and explicit norm-setting consistently reduce defensiveness and improve shared reasoning, though strong controlled trial evidence for most specific techniques is limited. - Apply the same evidence standard regardless of whether you like the conclusion
Grade the evidence before you know which conclusion it supports.
Motivated Reasoning - State your confidence level alongside your position
"I’m about 70% confident on this" signals a reasoned estimate, not a fact claim.
Productive Disagreement, Made Practical - Separate the argument from the arguer
Address the claim on its merits, not the person’s motives or character.
Productive Disagreement, Made Practical - Walk down the ladder together in disagreements
In conflict, stop arguing about conclusions and descend together to the data level.
The Ladder of Inference - Weigh disconfirming evidence more heavily than confirming evidence
One strong counterexample outweighs many confirming examples for a universal claim.
Falsification Thinking - Invite an adversarial collaborator
Find someone whose genuine prior is the opposite of yours, and work together on the same evidence.
Confirmation Bias: Seeing What You Expect to See - Practice elenchus — cross-examine your own beliefs
Pick one confident belief and interrogate it as Socrates would: What do you mean? How do you know? What would refute it?
The Socratic Method, Made Practical - Specify what would falsify your belief before you look at evidence
Write down what evidence would prove you wrong before you go looking.
Falsification Thinking
Related concerns
- How To Resolve A Conflict Between The Beliefs Of Establishment Scientists Researchers And My Evidence
Grade the evidence before you know which conclusion it supports.
Apply the same evidence standard regardless of whether you like the conclusion
- Disputing Beliefs Evidence
Write down what evidence would prove you wrong before you go looking.
Specify what would falsify your belief before you look at evidence
- Evidence For And Against Belief
Ask how much more likely this evidence would be if you’re right versus if you’re wrong.
Evaluate evidence by its likelihood ratio, not by how it makes you feel
- Why People Disagree
Start by explicitly building the shared map before marking where it diverges.
Map what you actually agree on before diving into the disagreement
- Always And Never In Arguments
Absolute language triggers defensiveness and is almost never literally accurate.
Eliminate "always" and "never" from complaint language
- Asymmetric Evidence
Grade the evidence before you know which conclusion it supports.
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