Coaching practices for Engage Present Moment Anxiety

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  • The moment I’m in a room with people I’m trapped watching myself
  • I spend my days bracing for the next wave of it, scanning my body, dreading the moment it shows up
  • Even once the worst of it passes, I can’t get back into the room
  • When the anxiety takes over it feels like it is me
  • In the middle of a stressful moment I get hyper-aware of my own racing heart and how I’m coming across, and watching myself like that only cranks it higher

Practices that may help

  1. Situational attentional refocusing: shift from self to situation
    In anxiety-provoking situations, actively redirect attention outward — to the task, the other person, the environment.
    Metacognitive Therapy, Made Practical
  2. Run toward the feeling
    Actively invite more of the anxiety rather than waiting nervously for it to pass.
    The DARE Response to Anxiety, Made Practical
  3. Engage with the present moment
    Once the edge comes off, redirect attention fully into an activity or your surroundings.
    The DARE Response to Anxiety, Made Practical
  4. Strengthen the observing self
    Notice that there is a "you" watching your thoughts — that witness is stable even when thoughts are not.
    Defusion from Anxious Thoughts
  5. Redirect from self-focus to external attention
    When anxiety spikes, deliberately anchor attention to a specific external sound or object.
    Attention Training Technique (ATT), Made Practical
  6. The 5-4-3-2-1 grounding technique
    Name five things you see, four you hear, three you feel, two you smell, one you taste.
    The Anxiety Toolkit, Made Practical
  7. Use a 30-second micro-grounding version for public settings
    In public or meetings, a single-sense version — three named things you can see — takes 30 seconds and shows nothing.
    The 5-4-3-2-1 Grounding Technique
  8. Divided attention — hold multiple sources at once
    Expand awareness to hold three or more sounds simultaneously without collapsing back to one.
    Attention Training Technique (ATT), Made Practical
  9. Shift to task-focused attention under performance anxiety
    Redirect attention from self-monitoring and outcome worry to the specific process cues of the task at hand.
    Attentional Deployment, Made Practical
  10. Rapid attention shifting between sounds
    Switch attention between sound sources on cue, making each shift deliberate and immediate.
    Attention Training Technique (ATT), Made Practical

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