Coaching practices for Present Moment Anxiety
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Does this sound like the set of challenges you might be facing?
- My mind is racing off into every worst-case "what if" and I’m barely in the room anymore
- The moment I’m in a room with people I’m trapped watching myself
- The moment I’m up there performing, my head fills with "how do I look, am I blowing this, what are they thinking"
- The anxiety hits in the middle of a meeting or while I’m standing in line, and I can’t exactly close my eyes and name what I smell in front of everyone
- When the anxiety takes over it feels like it is me
Practices that may help
- The 5-4-3-2-1 grounding technique
Name five things you see, four you hear, three you feel, two you smell, one you taste.
The Anxiety Toolkit, Made Practical - Situational attentional refocusing: shift from self to situation
In anxiety-provoking situations, actively redirect attention outward — to the task, the other person, the environment.
Metacognitive Therapy, Made Practical - Shift to task-focused attention under performance anxiety
Redirect attention from self-monitoring and outcome worry to the specific process cues of the task at hand.
Attentional Deployment, Made Practical - Use a 30-second micro-grounding version for public settings
In public or meetings, a single-sense version — three named things you can see — takes 30 seconds and shows nothing.
The 5-4-3-2-1 Grounding Technique - Strengthen the observing self
Notice that there is a "you" watching your thoughts — that witness is stable even when thoughts are not.
Defusion from Anxious Thoughts - Run toward the feeling
Actively invite more of the anxiety rather than waiting nervously for it to pass.
The DARE Response to Anxiety, Made Practical - Ask: how will this look in one year, five years?
Project forward to check whether the catastrophe still looks catastrophic from a temporal distance.
Decatastrophizing, Made Practical - Recalibrate arousal as readiness, not threat
Reinterpret pre-performance anxiety as energy and readiness rather than evidence of inadequacy.
Mastery Experiences - Engage with the present moment
Once the edge comes off, redirect attention fully into an activity or your surroundings.
The DARE Response to Anxiety, Made Practical - Redirect from self-focus to external attention
When anxiety spikes, deliberately anchor attention to a specific external sound or object.
Attention Training Technique (ATT), Made Practical
Related concerns
- Engage Present Moment Anxiety
In anxiety-provoking situations, actively redirect attention outward — to the task, the other person, the environment.
Situational attentional refocusing: shift from self to situation
- Background Anxiety Management
Distinguish solvable worries — which need a plan — from hypothetical ones — which need acceptance or defusion.
Productive Problem-Solving vs. Worry
- Outside View Anxiety
In anxiety-provoking situations, actively redirect attention outward — to the task, the other person, the environment.
- When The 5 4 3 2 1 Grounding Portable Micro Grounding
In public or meetings, a single-sense version — three named things you can see — takes 30 seconds and shows nothing.
Use a 30-second micro-grounding version for public settings
- Act Ocd Anxiety
Trigger obsessional distress, then refrain from the compulsive or avoidant response.
Exposure and response prevention (ERP) for OCD-like patterns
- Anxiety In Public
In public or meetings, a single-sense version — three named things you can see — takes 30 seconds and shows nothing.
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