Coaching practices for Focus on What You Can Control

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Does this sound like the set of challenges you might be facing?

• I’ve pinned everything on a result that partly depends on the judges, the competition, plain luck
• My worry about this whole situation is one tangled knot where the parts I could actually do something about and the parts that are completely out of my hands are all fused together, so I spin on all of it at once and act on none of it.
• When it matters most my mind scatters everywhere at once
• I can’t control how this turns out, and instead of finding the one move that would actually help, I either freeze up and do nothing or scatter myself frantically across a dozen things
• I’ve stopped obsessing over my body, but I’m still fixed on the club or the racket in my hands

Practices that may help

1. Filter goals through the controllability test
   Only set goals for actions you can directly control — not for outcomes that depend on others or luck.
   Process Goals, Made Practical
2. Sort the situation into controllables and uncontrollables
   Split any stressful situation into what you can influence and what you can’t, then act only on the first list.
   Locus of Control: Building a Sense of Agency
3. Direct focus to controllables only, especially under pressure
   When pressure is highest, narrow attention to what you can directly influence — and let everything else go.
   The Clutch State: Performing Under Pressure
4. Identify the single most important lever you actually have
   When you can’t control the outcome, find the one action that most expands the probability of success.
   The Dichotomy of Control: Epictetus’ Central Lesson
5. Use more distal external focus for greater performance benefits
   Focus further from the body (on the target, not the implement) for the largest attention benefit.
   External Focus of Attention, Made Practical
6. Direct attention to the effect of the movement, not the movement itself
   Attend to where the ball goes or where force lands — not to how your arm or leg moves.
   External Focus of Attention, Made Practical
7. Identify and act on lead measures
   Focus daily behavior on lead measures — the predictive actions you control — not lag measures you can only observe.
   The 4 Disciplines of Execution (4DX)
8. Habit 1: Be proactive
   Take responsibility for your responses; act on what you can control, not on what happens to you.
   The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People, Made Practical
9. The control sort
   For any stressor, explicitly list what is up to you and what is not — then put all attention on the first list.
   The Dichotomy of Control: Epictetus’ Central Lesson
10. Focus daily energy on what is within today’s influence
    When the ultimate outcome is uncertain and distant, redirect attention to the present-moment actions that are completely within your control.
    The Stockdale Paradox, Made Practical

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