Coaching practices for Focus on What You Control

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Does this sound like the set of challenges you might be facing?

• I’ve pinned everything on a result that partly depends on the judges, the competition, plain luck
• When it matters most my mind scatters everywhere at once
• I’ve stopped obsessing over my body, but I’m still fixed on the club or the racket in my hands
• When it counts, I’m in my head about my own body
• I keep staring at the big result hoping it moves, but it’s out of my hands day to day

Practices that may help

1. Filter goals through the controllability test
   Only set goals for actions you can directly control — not for outcomes that depend on others or luck.
   Process Goals, Made Practical
2. Direct focus to controllables only, especially under pressure
   When pressure is highest, narrow attention to what you can directly influence — and let everything else go.
   The Clutch State: Performing Under Pressure
3. Use more distal external focus for greater performance benefits
   Focus further from the body (on the target, not the implement) for the largest attention benefit.
   External Focus of Attention, Made Practical
4. Direct attention to the effect of the movement, not the movement itself
   Attend to where the ball goes or where force lands — not to how your arm or leg moves.
   External Focus of Attention, Made Practical
5. Identify and act on lead measures
   Focus daily behavior on lead measures — the predictive actions you control — not lag measures you can only observe.
   The 4 Disciplines of Execution (4DX)
6. Identify the single most important lever you actually have
   When you can’t control the outcome, find the one action that most expands the probability of success.
   The Dichotomy of Control: Epictetus’ Central Lesson
7. Sort the situation into controllables and uncontrollables
   Split any stressful situation into what you can influence and what you can’t, then act only on the first list.
   Locus of Control: Building a Sense of Agency
8. Use external focus to improve balance and stability
   Focus on the feeling of the surface or a distant stabilization target rather than on your postural muscles.
   External Focus of Attention, Made Practical
9. Keep an attention capture list during hyperfocus
   Write down every impulse, distraction, and off-topic idea that arises during a session rather than acting on or suppressing it.
   Hyperfocus: Directing Intense Attention to What Matters Most
10. Choose one domain to move toward the bullseye this week
    Pick the domain where a small move would matter most — not the most important one in the abstract.
    Values Bullseye, Made Practical

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