Coaching practices for Giving Constructive Criticism to My Boss' Boss
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- I send my boss the careful, detailed write-ups I’d want to receive and they barely skim them, and I keep blaming the content
- I keep dropping problems on my boss’s desk and waiting for them to tell me what to do, and I can feel it reads as me not owning my work
- No matter how carefully I word it, my feedback seems to land as me sitting in judgment over them from above
- I think my boss is about to make the wrong call and I’m biting my tongue to keep the peace, then quietly stewing about it after
- I keep taking my boss’s frustrating decisions personally, like they’re just choosing to make my life harder
Practices that may help
- Adapt to your manager’s communication style
Match your manager’s preferred level of detail, pace, and channel — not theirs to yours.
Managing Up: Practical Skills for Working with Your Boss - Bring a proposed solution when you bring a problem
Describe the problem and your recommended path before asking for a decision.
Managing Up: Practical Skills for Working with Your Boss - Establish shared purpose before delivering critique
Frame critique as help toward a shared goal, not an evaluation from above.
The Feedback Sandwich: Why It Doesn’t Work and What to Do Instead - Disagree with your manager constructively
State your disagreement clearly, give your reasoning, and then commit to the decision — without sacrificing either honesty or loyalty.
Managing Up: Practical Skills for Working with Your Boss - Understand the constraints your manager operates under
Ask about the pressures and constraints your manager faces — then factor them into your expectations and requests.
Managing Up: Practical Skills for Working with Your Boss - Map your manager’s top three priorities
Know what your manager is measured on and being pressured about — your work lands differently when it connects to that.
Managing Up: Practical Skills for Working with Your Boss - Make feedback flow in both directions
Give timely, specific feedback — and ask for it on your own management.
Effective One-on-Ones, Made Practical - Make feedback specific and behavioral, not evaluative
Describe what you observed, not what it says about the person.
The Feedback Sandwich: Why It Doesn’t Work and What to Do Instead - Make praise as specific as criticism
Vague praise is nearly worthless; name exactly what was good and why.
Radical Candor, Made Practical - Ask for feedback before you give it
Earn the right to challenge by inviting challenge yourself, first.
Radical Candor, Made Practical
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Match your manager’s preferred level of detail, pace, and channel — not theirs to yours.
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