Coaching practices for Good Decision Bad Outcome

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  • I made a call that turned out badly and now I feel like an idiot for it
  • I beat myself up over a call that went badly even though it was the right move with what I knew, and I let myself off the hook for reckless ones that happened to work out
  • A choice I made blew up and I’m tearing into myself
  • I beat myself up over a call that went badly even though it was reasonable with what I knew, and I pat myself on the back for a reckless one that happened to work
  • I’m agonizing over this choice like it’s carved in stone and I can never come back from it, paralyzed by a downside that has me frozen

Practices that may help

  1. Judge decisions by the process, not the result
    A good decision that produces a bad outcome is still a good decision.
    Expected Value Thinking: Deciding Under Uncertainty
  2. Separate the quality of the decision from the outcome
    A good decision can produce a bad outcome, and a bad decision can produce a good outcome — do not confuse them.
    Thinking in Bets
  3. Evaluate decisions by process, not outcome
    Judge a decision by the quality of the reasoning at the time, not by what happened.
    Hindsight Bias: Why Everything Seems Obvious in Retrospect
  4. Score decision quality separately from outcome quality
    Judge the process you used — not whether it worked — when you review a past decision.
    Decision Journaling: Learning to Decide Better Over Time
  5. Check reversibility before you fear the downside
    Most decisions are reversible; reserve maximum caution for the few that aren’t.
    The Regret-Minimization Framework
  6. Log the decision before the outcome
    Write what you decided, why, and what you expect — before you know how it turns out.
    Decision Journaling: Learning to Decide Better Over Time
  7. Check the consequence across time horizons
    A choice can be good at one day, bad at one year — name the result at each horizon.
    Second-Order Thinking: And Then What?
  8. Classify decisions by reversibility and stakes
    Sort decisions into low-stakes/high-stakes and reversible/irreversible before deciding.
    Decision Journaling: Learning to Decide Better Over Time
  9. Apply the outcome equivalence test
    Ask: if the same harm resulted from action vs. inaction, which would you prefer? Divergence reveals the bias.
    Omission Bias — Why Doing Nothing Feels Safer Than Acting
  10. Slow down on one-way doors
    For irreversible decisions, invest in deliberation proportional to the downside — not to your confidence.
    The Two-Way Door

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