Coaching practices for How Long Do Emotions Last

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• Something just set me off and I can feel it surging right now
• When a wave of anger or panic hits, it feels like it’ll swallow me whole if I don’t do something right now
• When a feeling takes over I’m just lost inside it, like it’s the whole room
• My blowups feel like they come out of nowhere, but I’m starting to notice it’s always the same setups
• The big blowup is over but I’m completely wrung out

Practices that may help

1. The 90-Second Rule, Made Practical
   Jill Bolte Taylor, in her neuroscience memoir, claimed that the physiological arousal of an emotion cycles through the bloodstream in about 90 seconds — and that if you don’t re-trigger it with thought, it passes. The specific "90 seconds" is a popular claim from a personal account, not a controlled finding; the underlying insight — that emotions are time-limited physiological events that we sustain by ruminating — is well-grounded in emotion science.
2. Observe the emotion without feeding it
   When a strong emotion hits, watch it without adding the story that keeps it going.
   The 90-Second Rule, Made Practical
3. Riding the emotion wave with anicca awareness
   When a strong emotion hits, track it through its full arc — notice it peak and fall without fleeing or amplifying.
   Anicca: Working Practically with Impermanence
4. Name what the emotion is doing in your body
   Track the physical signs of the emotion as they move through — this alone reduces their intensity.
   The 90-Second Rule, Made Practical
5. Map your personal emotion triggers
   Know which situations, times of day, and states reliably trigger your most intense emotions — so you can intervene upstream.
   The 90-Second Rule, Made Practical
6. Recover and recharge after intense emotion
   After an emotional peak, deliberately allow recovery time — intense arousal depletes resources.
   The 90-Second Rule, Made Practical
7. Wait before reacting
   In the hot moment, delay action — the emotion will still be available to inform your response once it’s not in control of it.
   The 90-Second Rule, Made Practical
8. Delay a decision until the initial emotional spike passes
   Give yourself 24 hours after a strong emotional reaction before committing to a choice.
   The Affect Heuristic — When Feelings Substitute for Facts
9. Understand the function of the emotion
   Every emotion evolved because it does something useful — learn what yours is trying to do.
   DBT Emotion Regulation Skills, Made Practical
10. Track your emotions over time
    Log feelings briefly across days to see the patterns and triggers you would otherwise miss.
    Emotional Granularity: Precision as a Regulation Skill

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