Coaching practices for How to Cope with Overwhelm Emotions and Be Okay

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  • When a big feeling crashes over me it’s like I become it
  • I’m stuck at one of two extremes with hard feelings
  • Every time I try to face the hard stuff I go straight at the worst of it to just get it over with, and it floods me
  • The big blowup is over but I’m completely wrung out
  • I keep trying to shove this feeling down or talk myself out of it, and the harder I fight it the worse it gets

Practices that may help

  1. Mindfulness of the current emotion
    Observe the emotion as a wave passing through — without judging it, feeding it, or running from it.
    DBT Emotion Regulation Skills, Made Practical
  2. Mindful awareness of suffering
    Hold painful feelings in balanced awareness — neither suppressing them nor being swept away by them.
    Self-Compassion, Made Practical
  3. Titration (work in tiny, tolerable doses)
    Approach a hard sensation or memory in small sips, not all at once, so you stay regulated.
    Somatic Experiencing, Honestly Explained
  4. Recover and recharge after intense emotion
    After an emotional peak, deliberately allow recovery time — intense arousal depletes resources.
    The 90-Second Rule, Made Practical
  5. A — Allow the experience to be as it is
    Let what is present be here, without pushing it away, numbing it, or elaborating it.
    RAIN Meditation: Tara Brach’s Four-Step Practice
  6. Map your stress response (conceptualization phase)
    Before you train coping, understand the full sequence: trigger → appraisal → body → behavior → consequence.
    Stress Inoculation Training
  7. Give yourself permission to feel
    Drop the judgment about whether you should or shouldn’t feel a certain way — the emotion is already there.
    Radical Honesty About Emotions, Made Practical
  8. Stay with sensation without flooding (titrate)
    Build the capacity to feel a sensation in tolerable doses instead of numbing or being swept away.
    Interoception, Explained
  9. ACCEPTS — structured distraction from crisis
    Use Activities, Contributing, Comparisons, Emotions, Pushing away, Thoughts, and Sensations to redirect attention during a crisis.
    Distress Tolerance Skills, Made Practical
  10. Riding the emotion wave with anicca awareness
    When a strong emotion hits, track it through its full arc — notice it peak and fall without fleeing or amplifying.
    Anicca: Working Practically with Impermanence

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