Coaching practices for How to Deal with Separation Anxiety in Babies at Night

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• The minute my head hits the pillow the worries flood in and I lie there for hours, then the lost sleep makes the next day’s anxiety even worse
• By bedtime I’m already dreading another bad night, and the harder I try to force myself to sleep
• The second my head hits the pillow my mind starts up
• When I can’t fall asleep I just stay there, lying in the dark willing it to happen for an hour or more
• Every time I wake in the night I check the clock and immediately start the math

Practices that may help

1. The Pre-Sleep Worry Buffer
   Use a 10-minute afternoon or early evening worry review to protect sleep from nighttime rumination.
   Worry Time: Containing Anxiety With Scheduled Worry
2. Break the anxiety-about-sleep loop
   Interrupt the cycle where worrying about not sleeping becomes the main reason you can not sleep.
   Stimulus Control for Sleep
3. Schedule a worry time earlier in the day
   Contain bedtime worry by giving anxious thoughts a specific earlier window, then postponing them at night.
   CBT for Insomnia (CBT-I), Made Practical
4. Get out of bed when you can not sleep
   Leave the bed after roughly 20 minutes of wakefulness to avoid reinforcing the awake-in-bed association.
   Stimulus Control for Sleep
5. Stop watching the clock during the night
   Remove or hide the clock to stop the "calculating how much sleep I have left" loop that activates the brain.
   Stimulus Control for Sleep
6. Use the bed only for sleep (and sex)
   Reserve the bed strictly so the brain learns to associate it with sleepiness, not wakefulness.
   Stimulus Control for Sleep
7. Set your phone to alarm-only mode after 9pm
   After 9pm, your phone should be capable of receiving calls only — everything else silenced.
   The Phone-Free Bedroom
8. Replace phone scrolling with a physical book at bedtime
   A physical book provides relaxation without blue light, notifications, or the variable-reward loop.
   The Phone-Free Bedroom
9. Anchor the wind-down with a consistent starting cue
   A repeated pre-sleep ritual — a specific tea, a book, a certain playlist — becomes a conditioned cue that induces sleepiness over time.
   The Wind-Down Routine: Engineering Your Path to Sleep
10. Use 4-7-8 breathing as a sleep-onset ritual
    Four to eight cycles in bed before sleep reduces physiological arousal and supports the transition into sleep.
    4-7-8 Breathing, Made Practical

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