Coaching practices for How to Deal with Separation Anxiety in Dogs at Night

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• The minute my head hits the pillow the worries flood in and I lie there for hours, then the lost sleep makes the next day’s anxiety even worse
• By bedtime I’m already dreading another bad night, and the harder I try to force myself to sleep
• Just as I’m drifting off a notification buzzes and I’m wide awake again checking it, and even on the quiet nights I keep half-listening for the next one
• My bed is where I scroll, watch shows, answer emails, and worry
• The second my head hits the pillow my mind starts up

Practices that may help

1. The Pre-Sleep Worry Buffer
   Use a 10-minute afternoon or early evening worry review to protect sleep from nighttime rumination.
   Worry Time: Containing Anxiety With Scheduled Worry
2. Break the anxiety-about-sleep loop
   Interrupt the cycle where worrying about not sleeping becomes the main reason you can not sleep.
   Stimulus Control for Sleep
3. Set your phone to alarm-only mode after 9pm
   After 9pm, your phone should be capable of receiving calls only — everything else silenced.
   The Phone-Free Bedroom
4. Use the bed only for sleep (and sex)
   Reserve the bed strictly so the brain learns to associate it with sleepiness, not wakefulness.
   Stimulus Control for Sleep
5. Schedule a worry time earlier in the day
   Contain bedtime worry by giving anxious thoughts a specific earlier window, then postponing them at night.
   CBT for Insomnia (CBT-I), Made Practical
6. Take magnesium glycinate in the evening
   Magnesium glycinate is the best-tolerated form for nervous system effects — taken at night, it supports both sleep and anxiety.
   Magnesium and Anxiety, Made Practical
7. Drop the safety behaviors
   Let go of the small avoidances and crutches you use to feel "safe" from anxiety.
   The DARE Response to Anxiety, Made Practical
8. Get out of bed when you can not sleep
   Leave the bed after roughly 20 minutes of wakefulness to avoid reinforcing the awake-in-bed association.
   Stimulus Control for Sleep
9. Stop watching the clock during the night
   Remove or hide the clock to stop the "calculating how much sleep I have left" loop that activates the brain.
   Stimulus Control for Sleep
10. Offload cognitive load with a bedtime worry journal
    Write tomorrow’s to-do list and any intrusive worries before bed — externalized thoughts stop competing for attention at sleep onset.
    The Wind-Down Routine: Engineering Your Path to Sleep

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