Coaching practices for How to Decide What Matters
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Does this sound like the set of challenges you might be facing?
- Whenever I try to narrow down what matters most I can’t bring myself to actually cut anything
- I look at all the areas where I’m falling short and try to fix everything at once, and end up moving nothing
- Everything on my plate feels like it has to happen right now, so I just chase whatever’s loudest
- I end most days exhausted and still feel like I touched nothing that matters
- I’m frozen on a decision where honoring one thing I care about means shortchanging another
Practices that may help
- Circle your top 5 without negotiating
From 25, choose exactly 5 — the ones you’d feel worst about not doing.
Warren Buffett’s Two-List Strategy - Choose one domain to move toward the bullseye this week
Pick the domain where a small move would matter most — not the most important one in the abstract.
Values Bullseye, Made Practical - Sort tasks by the importance-urgency matrix
Classify every demand on your time by whether it is important AND/OR urgent before deciding when to do it.
Big Rocks First - Sort by importance before urgency
Ask "does this matter for what I’m actually trying to achieve?" before asking "is this due soon?"
The Eisenhower Matrix and Delegation - Resolving a decision with two competing values
When two values both apply, use your ranked priority to resolve the tension rather than freeze.
Values Card Sort - Sort by urgent vs important
Ask two separate questions of every task: does it matter, and does it need to happen now?
The Eisenhower Matrix, Made Practical - Identify the single most important output for today
Choose one task that, if completed, would make the day a success regardless of everything else.
Essentialism: The Art of Eliminating the Non-Essential - Highlight: choose one priority
Each morning, pick a single most-meaningful thing you want to make time for today.
Make Time, Made Practical - Align spending deliberately with stated values
Review each discretionary category against what you say matters most — and cut what doesn’t match.
The Latte Factor: Small Spending and the Cost of Habit - Using values questions to deepen a conversation
Ask "what matters most to you about this?" to surface values rather than surface preferences.
Values Card Sort
Related concerns
- Choose One Priority
Choose one task that, if completed, would make the day a success regardless of everything else.
Identify the single most important output for today
- Choosing Priorities
From 25, choose exactly 5 — the ones you’d feel worst about not doing.
Circle your top 5 without negotiating
- How To Choose Your Priorities
From 25, choose exactly 5 — the ones you’d feel worst about not doing.
- Defining Importance
Before sorting tasks, align on what "important" means — which goals, for whom, over what time horizon.
Define "important" explicitly as a team
- How To Prioritize What Matters
Choose one task that, if completed, would make the day a success regardless of everything else.
- Identify Daily Priorities
Choose one task that, if completed, would make the day a success regardless of everything else.
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