Coaching practices for How to Deliberate on Big Decisions

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• I agonize for days over tiny choices I could undo in a second, then rush the big ones I can’t take back
• I rush the big, costly decisions the same way I rush picking lunch
• I feel completely sure about this, and a quiet part of me knows that’s exactly when I’ve been most wrong before
• I agonize over which coffee to order with the same intensity I bring to the decisions that genuinely matter, and I can’t tell which ones deserve that effort
• There’s a tangled decision with too many moving parts to hold in my head all at once, and I feel pushed to just call it now and be done

Practices that may help

1. Classify decisions by reversibility and stakes
   Sort decisions into low-stakes/high-stakes and reversible/irreversible before deciding.
   Decision Journaling: Learning to Decide Better Over Time
2. Slow down for high-stakes, irreversible decisions
   Match deliberation to the cost of being wrong: spend System 2 where reversal is hard.
   Thinking, Fast and Slow, Made Usable
3. Slow down on one-way doors
   For irreversible decisions, invest in deliberation proportional to the downside — not to your confidence.
   The Two-Way Door
4. Recognize which decisions to defer or delegate
   Not every choice deserves your cognitive best — identify which ones merit serious deliberation.
   Choice Overload, Made Practical
5. Sleep on important decisions
   For complex decisions, delay commitment overnight — sleep processing integrates information deliberate thought misses.
   The Three Bs of Creativity: Bed, Bath, and Bus
6. The seventh-generation test for decisions
   Before a major choice, ask how it will affect people seven generations from now.
   The Good Ancestor: Long-Path Thinking for a Meaningful Life
7. Make decisions through debate, not declaration
   Multipliers use real debate to engage the team’s best thinking before deciding; Diminishers use meetings to announce.
   Multipliers: How Leaders Amplify the Intelligence Around Them
8. Classify every decision as one-way or two-way before starting
   Before applying any decision process, ask: can I reverse this if I am wrong?
   The Two-Way Door
9. Disagree and commit on two-way doors
   Voice your disagreement fully, then commit to the group decision and give it a genuine try.
   The Two-Way Door
10. Parallel thinking drill: all hats in sequence for a real decision
    Run a real pending decision through all six hats in sequence to experience the full method before adapting it.
    Six Thinking Hats, Made Practical

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