Coaching practices for How to Do Erp for Ocd

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  • A nagging thought or urge takes hold and the only way I get relief is to do the ritual
  • I refresh the numbers
  • The second a plan changes or someone does something a different way than I would, I feel this hard pull to step in and correct it back into order
  • When I just run this through in my head it loops back to the same dark conclusion every time and nothing budges
  • I can see exactly the moment I’m going to slip

Practices that may help

  1. Exposure and response prevention (ERP) for OCD-like patterns
    Trigger obsessional distress, then refrain from the compulsive or avoidant response.
    Exposure Therapy: Facing Fears to Shrink Them
  2. Schedule metric checks instead of monitoring continuously
    Check dashboards, stats, and analytics on a fixed schedule — not whenever anxiety spikes.
    The Not-To-Do List
  3. Practice flexible responding when your first instinct is to resist
    When you feel the urge to correct, control, or stick rigidly to a plan — pause and try a deliberate alternative.
    Radical Openness: The RO-DBT Approach to Overcontrol and Loneliness
  4. Complete a full CBT thought record
    Combine all steps into a single written record to make restructuring a repeatable tool.
    Cognitive Restructuring: The CBT Method for Changing Unhelpful Thoughts
  5. Form an if-then plan linking the obstacle to a specific response
    "If [obstacle occurs], then I will [specific action]" — this plan is what converts mental contrasting into behavior change.
    Mental Contrasting and WOOP
  6. Use mindfulness to notice the urge to delay without acting on it
    Observe the impulse to switch tasks or check your phone as a transient sensation, not a command.
    Procrastination as Emotion Regulation
  7. Run the full WOOP sequence — not just parts of it
    WOOP works as a sequence; running only the wish and outcome steps (pure positive visualization) is not WOOP and may be counterproductive.
    Mental Contrasting and WOOP
  8. Recognize overcontrol signals in your own behavior
    Notice the specific behaviors that signal you are controlling more than the situation requires.
    Radical Openness: The RO-DBT Approach to Overcontrol and Loneliness
  9. Radical Openness: The RO-DBT Approach to Overcontrol and Loneliness
    Radical Openness is the central skill of Radically Open DBT (RO-DBT), a treatment developed by Thomas Lynch for people who suffer not from impulsivity but from overcontrol — excessive self-restraint, rigidity, and difficulty expressing emotions or receiving feedback. The core practice is developing genuine willingness to be influenced by new information and other people, rather than protecting existing beliefs and behavioral patterns.
  10. Plan behavior management strategies in advance
    Decide how you will respond to predictable problems before they happen.
    Triple P Parenting (Matthew Sanders)

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