Coaching practices for How to Handle an Anxiety Attack
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- I always wait until I’m already in full panic to try to calm down, and by then it’s too far gone for anything to work
- The second I feel my heart pound or my chest tighten I clench up and try to force it to stop, and the fighting just cranks it higher
- I only ever try a new way to handle this once I’m already deep in a full-blown wave, and by then I’m too far gone to think
- Even once the worst of it passes, I can’t get back into the room
- The second I feel my heart race or my chest tighten I throw everything at making it stop
Practices that may help
- Use grounding before anxiety peaks, not after
Start the technique at the first sign of anxiety — not once the wave is overwhelming.
The 5-4-3-2-1 Grounding Technique - Allow the sensations without resisting
Let the physical feelings of anxiety be present instead of bracing against them.
The DARE Response to Anxiety, Made Practical - Rehearse the response before you need it
Learn and practice the four steps in low-stakes moments so they are available under pressure.
The DARE Response to Anxiety, Made Practical - Engage with the present moment
Once the edge comes off, redirect attention fully into an activity or your surroundings.
The DARE Response to Anxiety, Made Practical - Allow the sensations instead of fighting them
Do not try to stop the racing heart, the dizziness, the breathlessness — allow them and observe.
Panic Surfing - Run toward the feeling
Actively invite more of the anxiety rather than waiting nervously for it to pass.
The DARE Response to Anxiety, Made Practical - The DARE Response to Anxiety, Made Practical
The DARE response, popularized by Barry McDonagh, is an acceptance-based way to meet anxiety and panic: Defuse the scary thought, Allow the sensations without resisting, Run toward (rather than away from) the feeling, and Engage with life again. Its logic lines up with what exposure- and acceptance-based approaches do — you stop reinforcing fear by fighting or fleeing it. These are self-help skills for everyday anxiety; for severe or persistent panic, work alongside a qualified professional. - Stay in the situation for the full arc
Leave only after the attack has peaked and begun to subside — not in the middle, no matter how strong the urge.
Panic Surfing - Use somatic tracking instead of distraction
Observe sensations with neutral curiosity rather than distracting from them — the curiosity interrupts the threat appraisal.
Panic Surfing - Rapid relaxation: achieve a relaxation response in 20–30 seconds
Deploy a practiced, condensed relaxation sequence the moment anxiety begins rising.
Applied Relaxation, Made Practical
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Start the technique at the first sign of anxiety — not once the wave is overwhelming.
- How To Cope An Anxiety Attack
Leave only after the attack has peaked and begun to subside — not in the middle, no matter how strong the urge.
Stay in the situation for the full arc
- How To Cope With Anxiety Attack
Once the edge comes off, redirect attention fully into an activity or your surroundings.
Engage with the present moment
- How To Cope With Severe Anxiety Attacks
After every attack, record what actually happened — because anxiety memory is biased toward danger.
Conduct a post-panic review to counter catastrophic memory
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