Coaching practices for How to Reduce Resistance to Change

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• Every time I set out to change something, I aim big and then just freeze
• Whenever I’m asked to commit to something big my whole body says no
• The thing I’m trying to cut is just too easy
• I genuinely want to make this change and I keep not doing it, and it’s not laziness
• When I push my team on the hard stuff they either shut down and start blaming each other or just nod and carry on as before

Practices that may help

1. Shrink the step below the fear threshold
   Make the change so small it provokes no resistance — then it actually gets done.
   Kaizen: Change by Tiny Steps
2. Shrink the request to below the reactance threshold
   Small asks rarely feel like threats to freedom; large demands almost always do.
   Psychological Reactance: Working With the Push-Back Reflex
3. Psychological Reactance: Working With the Push-Back Reflex
   Psychological reactance, introduced by Jack Brehm in 1966, is the motivational state aroused when a person perceives that a free behavior is being threatened or eliminated. The predictable result is an urge to restore the freedom — often by doing the forbidden thing or rejecting the advice. The research base is solid for the core phenomenon; applications to self-motivation and coaching draw on that foundation with moderate practical support.
4. Add friction to unwanted behaviors
   Inserting even a small obstacle between you and an unwanted behavior meaningfully reduces how often it happens.
   Environment Design for Behavior Change
5. Map your immunity to change
   Find the hidden competing commitments that are holding a desired change in place.
   Kegan’s Subject-Object Theory, Made Practical
6. Regulate the level of distress in the system
   Keep productive pressure high enough to motivate change but low enough to prevent shutdown.
   Adaptive Leadership, Made Practical
7. Remove one small obstacle at a time
   Eliminate tiny points of friction so the good behavior becomes the path of least resistance.
   Kaizen: Change by Tiny Steps
8. Reduce friction for good behaviors to near zero
   Make the healthy behavior the path of least resistance by removing every avoidable obstacle between you and starting.
   Environment Design for Behavior Change
9. Minimum viable version of the behavior
   Reduce the new behavior to the smallest unit that still tests the hypothesis.
   Tiny Experiments: Testing Change Without Committing to It
10. Name the loss the adaptive challenge requires
    Explicitly acknowledge what people must give up — not just what they will gain.
    Adaptive Leadership, Made Practical

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