Coaching practices for How to Sit for Meditation
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- Every time I sit, the whole session turns into a fight with my back and knees
- Every time I try to sit I end up fidgeting and aching, or I lock myself rigid and grit through it
- I force myself into the "proper" upright meditation posture and twenty minutes in I’m just aware of my aching back and stiff legs
- A few minutes into sitting and I’m fogged-over and heavy, my head nodding, fighting to stay awake
- Sitting still to meditate just lets my mind spin, but I also can’t do anything jarring
Practices that may help
- Grounding in posture: zazen as the foundation
Let the body be upright, stable, and settled before everything else.
Shikantaza: Just Sitting - Zazen posture and breath
Establish a stable, upright seated posture and let the breath settle as the ground of practice.
Zen Practice (Zazen and Beyond) - Use a comfortable, sustainable position
Sit or recline in a posture you can hold without strain, so physical effort does not keep arousal up.
The Relaxation Response, Made Practical - Working with sloth-and-torpor (thina-middha)
Dullness and sleepiness in meditation require energising antidotes, not more settling.
The Five Hindrances: Diagnosing and Working with Meditation Obstacles - Standing meditation (Zhan Zhuang)
Stand still in a low posture for 5–20 minutes to build postural endurance and parasympathetic tone simultaneously.
Qigong: Evidence-Based Mind-Body Practice - Practicing with a sangha (community sitting)
Sit with others regularly — group practice stabilizes individual practice in ways solitude cannot.
Shikantaza: Just Sitting - Shikantaza — "just sitting" in the Soto Zen tradition
Sit with complete presence and nothing to achieve — no goal, no technique, no observer separate from sitting.
Open Monitoring Meditation, Made Practical - Kinhin — formal Zen walking meditation between sits
Practice very slow, deliberate walking between sitting periods, treating the transition as continuous practice rather than a break.
Walking Meditation, Made Practical - Metta at the close — sharing merit and goodwill
End each sitting by radiating goodwill outward, softening any self-critical edge the practice surfaces.
Vipassana Meditation, Made Practical - Releasing the object: sitting without a focal point
Let go of fixing attention on the breath, a mantra, or any other anchor — simply be present.
Shikantaza: Just Sitting
Related concerns
- Seated Meditation Form
Let the body be upright, stable, and settled before everything else.
Grounding in posture: zazen as the foundation
- Stable Meditation Posture
Sit or recline in a posture you can hold without strain, so physical effort does not keep arousal up.
Use a comfortable, sustainable position
- When The Relaxation Response Comfortable Position
Sit or recline in a posture you can hold without strain, so physical effort does not keep arousal up.
- How To Sit Shikantaza
Let the body be upright, stable, and settled before everything else.
- Just Sitting Meditation
Shikantaza ("just this sitting") is the central meditation practice of Soto Zen, formulated by Dogen Zenji (1200–1253). It is objectless, open-awareness meditation: you sit with alert presence, not focusing on any particular object and not trying to achieve any state. Dogen taught that shikantaza is not a means to enlightenment but the expression of it — sitting is itself the practice. Benefits overlap with studied open-monitoring meditation, though shikantaza’s specific claims are experiential rather than clinically validated.
- Lying Down Meditation Tips
Dullness and sleepiness in meditation require energising antidotes, not more settling.
Working with sloth-and-torpor (thina-middha)
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