Coaching practices for How to Stick to Goals

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• I set goals for myself all the time and then quietly let them slide, because there’s never any real consequence for bailing
• I keep abandoning goals the second they get hard, and I’m starting to suspect it’s because they were never really mine
• There’s a goal I keep flogging myself to pursue and it just won’t stick
• The moment a goal gets hard I lose all sense of why I’m even doing it
• I set goals with such conviction and then never look at them again until it’s too late to do anything

Practices that may help

1. Write a formal commitment contract with a referee and stakes
   Formalize your goal with a clear metric, a deadline, stakes you’ll lose if you fail, and a referee who enforces it.
   Commitment Contracts, Made Practical
2. Relevant — anchor it to what you actually want
   Confirm the goal serves a value or larger aim you genuinely hold.
   SMART Goals That Actually Move
3. Using your ranked values as a coaching north star
   Return to your ranked values list every time a goal, project, or decision feels off-track.
   Values Card Sort
4. Anchor each goal to a named, personal value
   Make the goal an expression of a specific value so it stays motivating when difficulty peaks.
   Self-Concordant Goals, Made Practical
5. Run a regular review cadence
   Check in weekly and score at cycle-end so the OKRs stay alive instead of forgotten.
   OKRs for People, Not Just Companies
6. Frame goals as approach-oriented rather than avoidance-oriented
   "Become healthy" outperforms "stop being sedentary" — frame goals toward what you want, not away from what you fear.
   Goal Systems Theory: How Goals Work Together (and Against Each Other)
7. Attach approach goals to implementation intentions
   Lock approach goals to specific when-and-where plans so the positive aim has a concrete trigger.
   Approach vs Avoidance Goals
8. Strengthen goal commitment through the means you choose
   The path you commit to shapes how strongly you pursue the goal — different means produce different levels of dedication.
   Goal Systems Theory: How Goals Work Together (and Against Each Other)
9. Reframe avoidance goals as approach goals
   Translate "stop failing" into "get to X" so your system aims at a target instead of a threat.
   Approach vs Avoidance Goals
10. Calibrate stretch with a target score
    Aim where hitting ~70% is a strong result, so comfort means you aimed too low.
    OKRs for People, Not Just Companies

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