Coaching practices for If Then Rules Decisions

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Does this sound like the set of challenges you might be facing?

• In the moment of temptation I always lose
• I tend to lock in on a decision the moment the first result looks good and just stop there, and I want to actually keep going
• We keep re-arguing the same decision we already settled weeks ago because no one wrote down what we chose or why
• There’s one specific thing that wrecks this for me every single time
• Under all this pressure to please people and react, I’m about to make a call that I already sense doesn’t square with who I actually want to be

Practices that may help

1. If–Then Planning, Made Practical
   If–then plans (also called implementation intentions) specify in advance how you will respond to the specific situations that typically derail your goals: "If situation X occurs, then I will do Y." A meta-analysis of 94 studies found a medium-to-large effect on goal attainment — one of the most reliable single techniques in goal-setting research.
2. Set default rules for willpower-intense situations
   A pre-decided rule requires no willpower at the decision point — the decision has already been made.
   Simple Heuristics: Gerd Gigerenzer’s Case for Fast and Frugal Thinking
3. Ask “and then what?” three times
   Don’t stop at the first consequence — follow the chain at least two steps further.
   Second-Order Thinking: And Then What?
4. Pair the RACI with a decision log
   Knowing who decides is only half the system — recording what was decided closes the accountability loop.
   The RACI Matrix, Made Practical
5. Write an if–then plan for your biggest obstacle
   "If [obstacle occurs], then I will [specific response]" — pre-deciding removes the obstacle’s power.
   If–Then Planning, Made Practical
6. Use the 10-year view to check values alignment
   Ask: is the 10-year version of this choice consistent with what I actually care about?
   The 10-10-10 Rule
7. Make decisions through debate, not declaration
   Multipliers use real debate to engage the team’s best thinking before deciding; Diminishers use meetings to announce.
   Multipliers: How Leaders Amplify the Intelligence Around Them
8. Simple Heuristics: Gerd Gigerenzer’s Case for Fast and Frugal Thinking
   Gerd Gigerenzer’s research program argues — with empirical support — that simple heuristics often outperform complex optimization strategies in real-world decisions under uncertainty. The key condition: when the environment is unpredictable and data is limited, ignoring most information and acting on a few reliable cues can produce better outcomes than exhaustive analysis. This is not anti-intellectual — it’s about matching the decision strategy to the structure of the problem.
9. Restudy decision protocol
   Use a defined decision rule — not a feeling — to determine which items get additional study.
   Judgments of Learning: Why You Misjudge What You’ve Learned
10. Route low-stakes decisions to async channels instead of meetings
    Offload trivial decisions to a written channel where anyone can object within 24 hours — otherwise the decision is made.
    Parkinson’s Law of Triviality: Stop Bikeshedding

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