Coaching practices for Individual Emotional Signature Sport

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  • Everyone tells me to get calm and positive before I perform, but honestly some of my best moments came when I was actually a little angry or on edge
  • Some days I show up and absolutely nail it and other days I fall flat, and it feels totally random
  • I start in exactly the right state but somewhere as the event grinds on
  • With the person closest to me I’ve fallen into playing a role, and the most real parts of me stay tucked away
  • I can analyze my feelings all day long, but it stays in my head and never actually moves through me

Practices that may help

  1. Expand the IZOF profile to include positive and negative emotions
    Map which emotions — not just anxiety — are functional for your performance, and which are dysfunctional.
    The Zone of Optimal Functioning: Hanin’s IZOF Model
  2. Map your personal IZOF from past performance data
    Identify the anxiety and emotional state that preceded your best and worst performances to find your individual zone.
    The Zone of Optimal Functioning: Hanin’s IZOF Model
  3. Monitor zone status during competition and intervene early
    Develop the habit of checking your emotional state at key points during competition and micro-regulating back toward zone.
    The Zone of Optimal Functioning: Hanin’s IZOF Model
  4. Apply strengths consciously in your most important relationships
    Identify how your signature strengths are showing up — or failing to show up — in the relationships that matter most.
    VIA Character Strengths, Made Practical
  5. Locate the emotion in the body as well as naming it
    After naming an emotion on the Feeling Wheel, find where it lives in the body.
    The Feeling Wheel: Building Emotional Vocabulary
  6. Develop personal cue words that have real meaning for you
    Build self-talk cues from your own best performance experiences — not from a generic list.
    Self-Talk Strategies, Made Practical
  7. Bridge from signature strengths to purpose
    Identify the top two or three things you do better than most people and trace how they can serve something larger.
    The Life Crafting Intervention: Scripting Your Future Self
  8. Regulate emotional tone as part of performance preparation
    Identify the specific emotional tone (challenged, confident, competitive, calm) your IPS requires — and practice producing it.
    The Ideal Performance State, Made Practical
  9. Detach from outcomes and focus only on what you control
    Emotional attachment to outcomes creates fragility; disciplined effort on inputs creates resilience.
    Discipline Equals Freedom: Jocko Willink's Framework
  10. Practice letting go of outcomes
    Release attachment to results during performance so attention can stay with the process.
    The Inner Game: Quieting Self 1

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