Coaching practices for Inner Critic Anxiety

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Does this sound like the set of challenges you might be facing?

• The voice in my head feels like just me
• I’ve tried for years to just shut this critical voice up and it never works
• The voice in my head that drives me is brutal
• While I’m actually performing there’s this running commentary telling me I’m blowing it, and I take every word of it as fact in the moment
• One thing went badly and now my whole head has rewritten it into "I’m incompetent"

Practices that may help

1. Name and externalize the inner critic
   Give the critic a name and treat it as a character, not the truth about you.
   Working With Your Inner Critic
2. Inquire into what the critic is protecting
   Ask your inner critic what it is afraid would happen if it stopped criticizing you.
   Working With Your Inner Critic
3. Replace harsh self-criticism with compassionate self-enquiry
   When the inner critic fires, respond with curious investigation rather than more demands.
   Radical Openness: The RO-DBT Approach to Overcontrol and Loneliness
4. Identify your Self 1 interference in real time
   Notice when your inner critic is instructing, judging, or catastrophizing — and name it as Self 1.
   The Inner Game: Quieting Self 1
5. Reframe the critic’s verdict as data, not identity
   When the critic says "you failed," redirect to "what can I learn?" — a specific question, not a pep talk.
   Working With Your Inner Critic
6. Recognizing Shame and Self-Criticism Patterns
   Name the specific self-critical scripts and their triggers before trying to change them.
   Compassion-Focused Therapy: Calming the Inner Critic
7. Working with Multiple Selves (Chair Work in CFT)
   Give voice to different internal parts — the critic, the anxious self, the compassionate self — to understand and change the dialogue.
   Compassion-Focused Therapy: Calming the Inner Critic
8. Critic journaling — transcript and response
   Write what the critic says in one column; write a compassionate adult response in the other.
   Working With Your Inner Critic
9. The inner critic dialogue
   Give the inner critic a voice on paper and then respond — the goal is dialogue, not silencing.
   Shadow Work
10. Shift identity from self-concept to awareness itself
    Experiment with "I am the aware space" rather than "I am my thoughts and feelings."
    Non-Dual Awareness, Made Practical

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