Coaching practices for Inner Critic Fear Exercise

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Does this sound like the set of challenges you might be facing?

• I’ve tried for years to just shut this critical voice up and it never works
• The voice in my head that drives me is brutal
• The harsh thoughts move so fast in my head I can’t get any grip on them
• The voice in my head feels like just me
• There’s a voice in my head that won’t stop telling me I’m not enough and I’m selfish, and the harder I try to shut it up the louder it gets

Practices that may help

1. Inquire into what the critic is protecting
   Ask your inner critic what it is afraid would happen if it stopped criticizing you.
   Working With Your Inner Critic
2. Replace harsh self-criticism with compassionate self-enquiry
   When the inner critic fires, respond with curious investigation rather than more demands.
   Radical Openness: The RO-DBT Approach to Overcontrol and Loneliness
3. Critic journaling — transcript and response
   Write what the critic says in one column; write a compassionate adult response in the other.
   Working With Your Inner Critic
4. Name and externalize the inner critic
   Give the critic a name and treat it as a character, not the truth about you.
   Working With Your Inner Critic
5. The inner critic dialogue
   Give the inner critic a voice on paper and then respond — the goal is dialogue, not silencing.
   Shadow Work
6. Identify your Self 1 interference in real time
   Notice when your inner critic is instructing, judging, or catastrophizing — and name it as Self 1.
   The Inner Game: Quieting Self 1
7. Shame-attacking exercises
   Do something mildly embarrassing on purpose to prove you can survive and function through discomfort.
   Unconditional Self-Acceptance
8. Recognizing Shame and Self-Criticism Patterns
   Name the specific self-critical scripts and their triggers before trying to change them.
   Compassion-Focused Therapy: Calming the Inner Critic
9. Reframe the critic’s verdict as data, not identity
   When the critic says "you failed," redirect to "what can I learn?" — a specific question, not a pep talk.
   Working With Your Inner Critic
10. Working with Multiple Selves (Chair Work in CFT)
    Give voice to different internal parts — the critic, the anxious self, the compassionate self — to understand and change the dialogue.
    Compassion-Focused Therapy: Calming the Inner Critic

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